It’s hard to remember how 2003 began actually. I definitely remember the music of the year & certain events. But, if I was to sum it up it would have to be it would be Beats, Drugs, Highlights & Depression. I fully embraced the life of a club boy then. Only going to certain parties where certain dj’s were gonna spin. Meeting tons of new people in the nightlife world. Promoters, djs, go-go’s, dealers, bouncers, straights, gays….. I was fully into it. Don’t get me wrong, I was still a functioning person. Had a job, paid rent on time & had an abundance of places to go to have fun. Speaking of rent, around this time I came to find out that the wonderful wizard of Oz had been overcharging me in rent. If you have stabilized rent on an apartment here in NYC, you do your best to hold on to it. If you have that AND something called section 8 then you pretty much never have to leave your place. I can’t fully remember when I found out but I know I managed to get my rent down to paying $400 for a huge room in a 3 bedroom apt in midtown. That was nothing & if I had that now, well things would be easier that’s for sure. How a grown man couldn’t afford to take care of himself I do not know. We went from semi-hating each other when I first moved in to me almost like a ‘older’ younger brother. I handled bills & made sure they were paid on time, except the rent….. that was his one he had to take care of since it was in his name. We saw roommates come & go, but somehow our relationship stayed in tact. I accepted him for all his crazy ways & decided I didn’t want to live anywhere else. Besides, it was like I was rarely home.
In these days, there were tons of parties to go to. Every day of the night there seemed to be something to go to. Happy Hour at Posh, Pop Rocks, Splash, a few trips to Esquelita, Opaline in the East Village, Limelight (Avalon) on Sunday, any other random club that was also opened during the week. My favorite was Roxy on Saturday nights. I would take ecstasy & dance the night away. I remember Jason coming back from school & being utterly shocked of my new behavior. I was with my crew & we took care of each other so it was ok. It wasn’t like every single person I hung out with did these things. It was definitely balanced. I would leave Roxy early Sunday morning & go straight to work at the gym. Rolling (literally) in with shades & off to my office to sleep under my desk. I’d have the front desk call me in case any one came in. There is no way in the world I could do that now. Looking back it’s kind of funny. Sad, but a little funny. I had also taken on some part time work at the hair salon where I got my hair done. That was the beginning of my love of changing my hair color so much. I had gone dark a few times before but this found me embracing the lighter side. Working with Doris & ‘the Asian Hair Mafia’ was a hilarious experience. That wasn’t really their name but one I gave them with the way they treated each other. I only stayed there a few months while Doris tried to find a replacement. I left to go back to full time at a different NYSC gym. This took me out to Forest Hills, Queens. It was odd to be traveling out of the city for work but the money turned out to be wonderful. Train rides out there gave me an abundance of stories to give to my GGB’s that still today make us laugh. Who could forget the crazy homeless popping up in my face saying, “You Gotta Dolla?” Or my personal favorite of sitting there watching a woman talking next to this Latina girl. I surely thought they knew each other because the woman had been talking for a full 30 minutes when all of a sudden the girl goes, “Would you shut the fuck up? U been talking for 30 minutes & I don’t know who u talkin’ to!” Then the lady goes, “If I wanna talk to me, myself & I Ima talk to me, myself & I!” Classic good times, for sure. Only in NY can you find characters like these.
In August of 2003, I got called into jury duty. I was the first person to be picked for a case that continues to give my friends & I laugh to this day. A man was arrested for one count of selling cocaine & I thought ‘Not guilty!’ & then when they said another count for selling a fake like substance I immediately thought ‘Guilty! Put em away! Screwy Lewey would have never tried to sell fake stuff.’ At one point they asked him where he had been at such & such time & he says nonchalantly, “Uhh uhh approx-itlee approx-itlee I don’t know.” (Writers note: I know how to spell approximately) In the middle of debating his innocence we had the blackout. It was the hottest of days & I remember walking all the way from downtown towards my apt. Initially, everyone thought we were having another 9/11 like scare but luckily this wasn’t the case. It was just an excuse to get semi-naked in the streets & drink up all the alcohol before ice melts. A new friend at the time found me at my apt & we went to his apt uptown where we were joined by the love of my life (at the time) Tim. We hooked up in hot, steamy encounter while our friend fell asleep in the other room. On that night he told me he was ready for us to be a couple. I was elated. That next week Tim introduced me to his soon to be bf. Once again, my heart was crushed. I hated this whole thing called love & wanted so desperately to have my feelings fully reciprocated. I found a wonderful friend in this guy who lived uptown & we started to hang out a lot. His boyfriend was an awesome guy as well but he was rarely in town. This was the beginning of that trouble.
Also around this time, my grandmother began to be constantly sick. As long as I could remember she would cough. I had always hoped she would quit smoking but she didn’t & this was when we found out she had lung cancer. The month of September is NYSC’s big anniversary & it was basically impossible for any of us to get off of work during this month. Sale, sale, sale! Bring in the members & make that money. The family was going crazy & my grandmother’s health was declining at a rapid pace. When I got down to visit her it was such a sad situation. I had never seen my grandfather cry before & my mom & aunt were not speaking. Someone had to stay strong so it had to be me. In the short time I was there it was like she was unrecognizable. My grandmother was always a little bit vain (no wonder where I get it from) & she didn’t like not being able to do things on her own. She would all of a sudden talk to someone from cheerleading squad about so & so not doing a cartwheel right. At one point she snapped to reality & said, “Nicky I worry that this will happen to you.” I said, “Grandma I don’t smoke so I won’t get cancer.” She said, “No, that something bad will happen to you & you’ll be up there all alone with no one to take care of you.” She then went on about how she could tell I had been hurt by someone & just wanted to make sure I would open myself up to another man. Which was incredibly weird. I had come out to her on the phone months & months before but I had never once talked about any one I had dated or even loved. So I sat there a little stunned & just said, “Don’t worry about me Grandma, I’ll be ok. I just want you to be good again.” My time there went by way too quickly & I had to return to NYC. Thanksgiving came & for some reason or other I couldn’t go down. Thinking back it may have been too tough on me. I wish I had gone. Meanwhile she told my mom that I had made a perfect dinner. For the next week & a half after I went to work, did my job, went out & felt the need to escape. A little bump here, a lot of bumps there. Any thing to make me not feel. On December 8th I was at Limelight with everyone & I remember being high in one of the rooms when all of a sudden it was like I had this sobering moment. I felt empty. Something had left me. I told everyone that I had to go & when I went outside I saw my phone show that I had a voicemail. It was my mom telling me that grandma had passed away.
Christmas was not a good time for any one, family drama peaked at an all time high. No one was speaking with each other. This is a theme that seems to occur a lot with my family. I made the decision to not ever go down to NC for Christmas, something I have still remains. Things just haven’t felt the same in so long that it doesn’t seem worth it. On one of the nights I went out & very, very late at night I took too much ecstasy. The rest of my friends had left & after that I must of had a seizure. This experience caused me to come out of the depression. I couldn’t believe I had allowed myself to do such a thing. My grandmother would have kicked my ass. My friends were with me including my new friend who had the boyfriend. We became closer & closer in a very short amount of time. A hook up ensued. I fell for him a little more than I ever should. Another friend of mine had fallen for the boyfriend & we all found ourselves in this situation that had terrible consequences. It wasn’t the first time dealing with guys who have open relationships but it was a first for me to be friends with both of them. I decided I would never have one of those if I was to ever have another boyfriend. Out of what seemed nowhere there was a suicide attempt by one of the bfs. It more or less changed everything. Certain friends hated me & everyone took sides. The couple split & eventually moved far & away. Talking about this with my friend the other day we realized that these events still somehow affect us to this day. While they escaped NY we are still here to every now & then be reminded of that terrible time. I haven’t spoken to either of them in years & it is probably best. To this day whenever I hear ‘Who Knew’ by Pink I can’t help but think of this person. A part of me will probably always miss him in some degree.
In early September of 2004 I left the gym in Queens bc there was an opening at a gym on West 14th in Union Sq. Still really good money & the chance to not have to travel out of the city. Checking out the boys was another nice perk. I remember checking out a blonde guy doing dips in front of my office. Something had happened with his membership & I ended up having to re-sign him up. Later during the week my friends & I went to Pop Rocks newest home on 13th st. I was on top of a box naturally & seriously ‘giving it to the fans’. When the song was over I stepped down to get a drink & a guy came up to me. ”You probably get this a lot but my friend thinks you’re really hot.” I looked over at his friend & low & behold it was my little crush from the gym. I went over & his friend said, “Look Jordan, look who I brought over!” He looked a little embarrassed & I assured him the feeling was mutual. We danced together for the rest of the night & when the night was over I went home with him. It always seemed funny to me that the first night we hooked up was Tim’s birthday. Things happened really quickly & we began to hang out a lot. It was easy because my work was right next to his apt. I met his friends & he met mine. I found myself doing couple things. Doing a limo ride with Larry & Nico, Rob & Brian & us. Going out to the country to do a Halloween hey ride with his friend Dawne & her man Pablo. It was like a foreign thing to me. Someone wanted to be with me & not feel guilty about it. There was no worry of age difference because he was only 5 & 1/2 months older than me. I couldn’t help but think that Grandma doesn’t have to worry about me being alone.
2005 started off to be such a better year than 04. I decided to start blogging. Re-reading some of those old passages are funny because they’re basically just rants & raves that only my friends would get into. It took me a few months before I started putting things together with a little substance. Around February I dragged my friend Tameika with me to TRL so I could see Mariah Carey. They told us at the beginning of taping there would be a giving away of some kind & we needed to make sure we could get away for the weekend & a Monday. I figured there would be no way I could get out of work so I gave Tameika my ticket. To our amazement Tameika won a trip for 2 to see Usher live in Puerto Rico. Obviously I was now going. We got to meet him & be in the very front row. It had been an awesome week. I was right next to Mariah again (first time since Glitter), flown to PR & met Usher & saw Beyonce. Things were definitely looking up. My relationship was also a bit of a whirlwind. I took Jordan down to meet my friends in Wilmington, NC. They weren’t quite ready for such ummmm loudness. This early part of our relationship was a ride I should say. I was still doing drugs but not as much as I had before. Jordan hated it. There were nights where we would be fighting at whatever bar we were at with our friends. Then all would be ok again. It was a trip to DC that kind of changed things around for me. Tempted to cheat & a dislocated shoulder later made for a crazy end to that trip. I thought that maybe this wasn’t meant to be. I was too ‘clubby’ for him & he was too do as I say for me. I’m very stubborn & so is he so put it together & makes for a rough time. On a drunken angry night at Xl we ended our relationship.
The next day I took Rob as my plus one for this VH1 concert that Mariah was doing. It was all about the Emancipation of Mimi & in ways it was the Emancipation of Nicky. After being at the gym for a while I felt the need to get away. I was still seeing Jordan & we were not speaking. The summer was just around the corner & I decided to do something crazy. Quit NYSC & take the summer off. Looking back it seems silly because it’s not like I wasn’t having fun & good times for years. But at the time it sounded wonderful. I had saved up money & like I said I never had a problem paying rent. As far as I knew Oz was paying the rent on time. So that summer I was fully blonde, tan & ready for a good time. I went to DC for Pride to party with the DC boys, I took my first trip out to Fire Island with Rob & Nathan, I took time to just be extra wild & crazy. Looking back I’m still glad I did it, I should have just come up with a better plan when no proper jobs came through. I started working at a bar/restaurant that basically we sat around & drank all day. I became a sub again for NYSC. I was performing at Don’t Tell Mama a little. I met a guy who was really, sweet, & kind & French. Another quick romance & we went down to Florida for Labor Day. While we were there I found out he was married & had children. He had fallen for me quickly & I had honestly wanted to try a relationship with him but all of that combined made it pretty hard for me to go on with it. One night we found ourselves at an after party & I met a guy named Joe. Straight guy Joe. Same old story. Guy questions his sexuality, goes out & meets blonde, tan gay boy writhing around on a couch. Guy can’t resist. Later, we ended up back at my apt & needless to say he wasn’t so straight. After that I would get calls late in the night asking if he could come over. Sigh sigh sigh, looking back I’m surprised I dealt with it but it definitely gave my friends & I something to talk about at brunch. Speaking of brunch, I found out about a certain ex trying new things. It infuriated me since that was the reason we had fought so much. On one of those late night occasions I found myself hanging out again with him. After a night of seeing Madonna at the Roxy we were at an after party hanging out & shortly after we hooked up again. Deciding not to rush into anything like how the last time was we were taking it cool. Meanwhile I was still getting calls from Joe & one night he came over drunk & angry & upset about not being able to come out. That serving of crazy was too much for me to take & I cut ties with him. I have seen him on rare occasion out & about over the past few years but not much seems to have changed. All I know is that isn’t the way I would want to live my life.
Towards the end of the year I had an awful drunken fight with my friend & I was pushed into a gate. I remember Jordan calling me over & over because he was scared for me. It was then that I knew that this whole taking it slow thing wasn’t gonna last. We went to DC with our friend Tom to see my friends Chuck & the DC crew. Once again in a drugged up haze Jordan came to my rescue. Looking back I don’t understand why I would do so much or even do it at all. I was certainly not the boy who had moved to NYC. The one who said he would never do this, this or this. How had I let something take over so much & so often. I would get ok & then something would happen & I would think sure, why not. If everyone else is doing it then why can’t I? It’s just one little pill. It makes me you feel so lovely. How can it hurt you when it looks so good? It was like I was a little boy that needed to be taken care of. It’s like I tried to give myself good advice but then very rarely followed it. I should have known there would be a price to pay. Will I ever learn to do the things I should?
TO BE CONTINUED
Tuesday, March 23, 2010
Friday, March 12, 2010
The Decade of Decadence Chapter 1: School Of Life
Last week was my 10 yr anniversary of living in NYC & it had me thinking back about all the time I have spent here. It’s been a while since I’ve blogged. The longest gap in time I’ve had for a few yrs in fact. It seems that life is beginning to once again change for me & I’ve been so busy that I’ve not really had the time to sit down properly & get it all down. So I figured before I start discussing the future how about I look back on the past.
It was 1999 & right at the stroke of midnight I was running down the cobblestone streets of downtown Wilmington, NC. Shuley & some friends were waiting for me to get to the club to ring in the new year & a new decade. They say that whatever you’re doing at the time of the new year you’ll be doing it all year. Mine couldn’t have turned out to be more true because just a month or so later I decided to move to NY. I ran into an old friend from high school very randomly & he mentioned wanting to move to either LA or NY. Ever since I was able to form the sentence I’m moving from this town I had started to plot my move far, far away. Our discussion went from let’s move in a few months to when is your lease up & with that we decided to move in March. Just so happened to also be the bday of my wonderful Shuley. It wasn’t easy for her & it definitely wasn’t easy moving here. Money was borrowed, lies were apparently told by real estate agents, van was packed & next thing you know we were saying goodbye to friends & family for the big apple.
My first apartment was a one bedroom apt in Roosevelt Island. The building was awesome & looking back I still find it strange how we got this apt. I blame it on 2 young guys from NC not really sure of what they were getting into. It took forever to find a job for both of us as we both pounded the pavement all over. My poor feet were not ready for all the walking. By the end of the month my friend told me he wanted to go back. We couldn’t afford our rent & had a lease that we didn’t know how we were gonna get out of. The buildings management found this odd since our forms showed we made an incredible amount of money in our own internet startup company. That’s right, the agents submitted phony forms. On my own I embarked on finding a way out of the mess I was in & in the meantime I got another friend from NC to fill in as my roommate. Ahhhhh what a mess that person became when he tried to use my card to get money for coke from some random guy in Central Park. A fight ensued & I was out for blood, cops were called & he was taken away as some random trick he had brought home from Splash sat there squealing in fear. All of this took place w/in the first few months of living here. I was so bummed about my friend backing out when the going got tough & was incredibly stressed that it was all on me. I had been on my own since I was 18 but this was the first time I really felt independent. While working at HMV (one of the major music stores at the time) I would also take time to audition & dance at a few clubs trying to make a little more money. One of the things I ended up being on was some atrocious show on VH1 How To Make A Boy Band. (Thank God there is no clip on youtube) There would be days where I just didn’t eat bc well I couldn’t afford to. I was sure as hell not gonna tell any one from NC about this because I didn’t want to hear an ‘I told you so, now come home’. Luckily I had me a Shuley’s Care Package from time to time. Just thinking of it makes me miss Boo Berry Cereal. One of my co-workers at HMV heard about my struggles & told me he was working on being able to get roommates once something went through with his landlord. It seemed promising but as another month went by I didn’t see it working out. I had found a couple with a newborn that could take over my lease & I would have to move by the end of June. As the time came close I feared for the worst. I had experienced my first Pride here in NYC & the city seemed alive with possibilities. Only none for me. I went into work fully prepared to give my notice when Oz, my co-worker came rushing in telling me I could move in. Like so many things in my life it had to be dramatic & right at the last minute. My rent would be dramatically cheaper & I would be living in an area called Hell’s Kitchen on West 47th st.
I moved in at the end of June & I can’t even remember how I got all my stuff over there. It was a scorcher of a night & I was sitting in the living room with one of my 2 new roommates. The window was open bc of the heat & we had no AC. Out of nowhere I heard a shot. Apparently a woman decided to shoot her husband & they lived right across the street. Top that off with my new roommate telling me he was an escort I was like ‘What the hell have I gotten myself into now’? Oz, this new roommate who was the same age as my mom, & I fought on so many things. He had lived with his mother his whole life & hadn’t ever experienced what it was like living with other people. I had never experienced what it was like to live with the great & wonderful wizard of Oz himself. I thought this will last a few more months & I’ll need to get the fuck up out of here. Meanwhile, I got a job at New York Sports Club as a front desk person which at first made me uneasy. I wasn’t the work out, get muscled type. I had been to Roxy once & I felt so intimidated by the big, shirtless muscle guys dancing to boom boom music. I also took my first NY dance class. I had danced since I was a kid. I won dance contests, was always told I was the best dancer…. I was hot shit. Boy oh boy was I in for a surprise. I couldn’t keep up, I was about 4 counts behind & my endurance was crap. Instead of giving up, I trudged on.
I got a part dancing in a club scene in what would become the bomb Glitter. To this day I still don’t think that movie was THAT bad. Then again we all know I’m partial to Mariah & when I got to see her I was all nervous & couldn’t speak. Either way it was a fun experience. I was in Limelight dancing up a storm with my new friend Krizia. I had made quite a few new friends through the gym & I ended up crossing over from front desk to sales. Home life with Oz was still insane but I was really beginning to love the life of an NYC boy. Even though I still clearly sounded like a country boy. I would go out & people would just say, “I just wanna hear you tawwk” in a terrible NY tries Southern accent. When Christmas came around it was my first visit back to NC to see the family & friends. All of a sudden all the turmoil I had went through to get to NY & stay in NY seemed incredibly worth it. I was happy to see everyone & we took tons of pics of the family all together. It was to be one of the last times we would all be like that again.
Mid January of 01 was when I met some of the people who would become some of my best friends. My friend from work, Kevin, introduced me to some guys he knew…. Ej & Larry. We met at one of the places that would become our hangout every Tuesday night for months & months after. Pieces, a karaoke bar was the place where we could get our dance & sing on. This was also around the time I would learn about a lil party called Pop Rocks. Krizia & I would go all dressed up & jam out to Britney, ‘Nsync, Xtina, Madonna, anything pop basically. This was when I would meet my first real boyfriend in NY, Jason. It was a fun time for sure. Looking back at pictures I’m reminded of the beginnings of open bars, vodka drinks, late nights, glitter & having some of the best times with new friends & really finding my own niche in this wonderful city that is NYC. I got to see my first Madonna concert at MSG & even though the show was not as good as the ones she’s done since it holds a nice place in my heart bc it was my first. There was a tad of drama when one day on the way to work I was hit by a mini-van. I had been so excited to get away form driving. I had not had the best of luck in that department in NC. Luckily I was ok in the end, but as I went flying through the air the same could not have been said for a homeless man’s house. I remember being put in the ambulance & thinking damn I’m not gonna be able to go out tonight to Pop Rocks. Low & behold I went out with a semi busted up face & we called it a celebration of life night. Thinking of that I can not help but LOL because had that happened now I would be sitting my ass at home.
When that had happened I had been on my way to a new job that I had gotten. On top of my NYSC sales job I got a job at a dance school for children. Ballet Tech, Elliot Feld’s school of dance. I had never taken ballet class while in NC. I had gotten enough grief from kids in school for doing acrobatics & theater & the other dance. I basically was helping with the kids that they taught, ages 5 and up. Those kids gave me plenty of stories throughout the time I was there. Those of you who know reading this, all I need to say is ‘Special White Kids’ & it should make you laugh. A small school but an eye opening experience. We would audition children for the school & I would at times be the instructor. I remember the first time I met one of the instructor’s it was my first lesson in how different ballet is from other dance. She looked at me & said “You have bad feet & you don’t have a dancer’s body.” To this day I still suck at that style & I’m always a little jealous of the people who can triple turn & make it look so effortless. I had continued taking my other classes as well & became a much better dancer in my normal style. I would take a girl name Sheryl’s class. She would later go on to be in Gaga’s Just Dance video & she choreographed Beyonce’s Ego video just to name a few things. It was in these classes I met certain other people who went on to have a little bit of fame. I’ll not say names bc they’re kind of dicks now. But that’s the way it goes in anything I suppose.
The summer came & summer boys came & gone as well. Jason & I had broken up & had decided we were much better off as friends & he was returning to school down south anyway. I was single & ready to mingle & on Labor Day weekend I went out with Krizia & John to Webster Hall. it was here that I met 2 people who would become major players in my life for years & years to come. I was dancing on a box when I first saw Tim. Handsome & older but I couldn’t tell if he was straight or gay. He had the dancing ability of a very non-coordinated straight guy. Krizia went up to him & then introduced us & needless to say he was gay. I was smitten but in those days I was very innocent. I didn’t go home with people I just met & preferred going on a date first. He was ok with that & then introduced me to his friend Jaime. Jaime was a crazy bitch if there ever was one. Loca in la cabeza for sure. He was wearing a Princess t-shirt that was size small & was getting his dance on. We all hung out before I left to go home & I made plans with Tim for an actual date. A few days later, Tuesday September 11th I got a phone call from my friend Russell who was frantic. ”I just wanted to make sure you’re not at the World Trade Center.” Barely wiping the sleep from my eyes I asked, “Why?” He said turn on the tv.
From time to time we would have sales meetings down there & that month it was gonna be held somewhere else. I had friends that worked down there & they barely made it out with their lives. I remember the time so vividly. My family was frantic & trying to get through but all phone lines were jammed. The city had a smell that was just beyond describable. It was the only time I ever considered really moving. I was that scared. There was a unity though throughout New Yorkers. All of a sudden the place that was known to have nasty attitudes & nasty people became nothing but love. Within a few days I decided I couldn’t leave. New York was my home. To this day though I find it hard to go down to that site. I may have been 3 times since. Then again I tend to stay in my little areas. But we’ll get to that jaded NYer story later.
During that next year I learned all about love & what it was to actually think of someone other than yourself. While I had dated & a few boyfriends I fell absolutely head over fricking heels in love with Tim. 10 years older than me but this was his original problem with me. We would go on to be friends one minute & then lovers the next. My famous New Years Eve party of 01 was spent me getting my heart broken. A theme that would seem to go throughout the whole year. I guess ‘they’ really aren’t fucking kidding about that saying what you do at midnight you’ll do the rest of the year. This heartache went on to make some pretty good songs if I don’t say so myself. I continued my job at NYSC, Ballet Tech with some various jobs throughout dancing in a few clubs. I was also performing doing some of my own songs at a Cabaret bar. By doing that I had also met some people who produced demo’s & needed vocalists or writers for their music. I found myself going out to Staten Island of all places for one producer. Of all those tracks that I did I think I liked actually one of them. Mind you if I read about him getting famous I would hunt him down in a hot second.
I was still taking plenty of time to go out with friends on the weekend & these days I wasn’t so intimidated by the muscle boys of Roxy the way I was a few years back. I still had been anti drug anything & all my friends were amazed by the way I could dance & dance for hours & not be chemically enhanced. I saw the way they were & it would make me giggle. I saw the way it was like a hunt for good ecstasy at the club. I remember one night being with Chad & Shane & so many of my other friends. I was in good company & I was safe. I remember thinking, “Hell, why not?” I looked at my friend & said, “Gimme a hit of E.” He said, “What? Are you serious?” ”Sure, why the hell not?”
TO BE CONTINUED
It was 1999 & right at the stroke of midnight I was running down the cobblestone streets of downtown Wilmington, NC. Shuley & some friends were waiting for me to get to the club to ring in the new year & a new decade. They say that whatever you’re doing at the time of the new year you’ll be doing it all year. Mine couldn’t have turned out to be more true because just a month or so later I decided to move to NY. I ran into an old friend from high school very randomly & he mentioned wanting to move to either LA or NY. Ever since I was able to form the sentence I’m moving from this town I had started to plot my move far, far away. Our discussion went from let’s move in a few months to when is your lease up & with that we decided to move in March. Just so happened to also be the bday of my wonderful Shuley. It wasn’t easy for her & it definitely wasn’t easy moving here. Money was borrowed, lies were apparently told by real estate agents, van was packed & next thing you know we were saying goodbye to friends & family for the big apple.
My first apartment was a one bedroom apt in Roosevelt Island. The building was awesome & looking back I still find it strange how we got this apt. I blame it on 2 young guys from NC not really sure of what they were getting into. It took forever to find a job for both of us as we both pounded the pavement all over. My poor feet were not ready for all the walking. By the end of the month my friend told me he wanted to go back. We couldn’t afford our rent & had a lease that we didn’t know how we were gonna get out of. The buildings management found this odd since our forms showed we made an incredible amount of money in our own internet startup company. That’s right, the agents submitted phony forms. On my own I embarked on finding a way out of the mess I was in & in the meantime I got another friend from NC to fill in as my roommate. Ahhhhh what a mess that person became when he tried to use my card to get money for coke from some random guy in Central Park. A fight ensued & I was out for blood, cops were called & he was taken away as some random trick he had brought home from Splash sat there squealing in fear. All of this took place w/in the first few months of living here. I was so bummed about my friend backing out when the going got tough & was incredibly stressed that it was all on me. I had been on my own since I was 18 but this was the first time I really felt independent. While working at HMV (one of the major music stores at the time) I would also take time to audition & dance at a few clubs trying to make a little more money. One of the things I ended up being on was some atrocious show on VH1 How To Make A Boy Band. (Thank God there is no clip on youtube) There would be days where I just didn’t eat bc well I couldn’t afford to. I was sure as hell not gonna tell any one from NC about this because I didn’t want to hear an ‘I told you so, now come home’. Luckily I had me a Shuley’s Care Package from time to time. Just thinking of it makes me miss Boo Berry Cereal. One of my co-workers at HMV heard about my struggles & told me he was working on being able to get roommates once something went through with his landlord. It seemed promising but as another month went by I didn’t see it working out. I had found a couple with a newborn that could take over my lease & I would have to move by the end of June. As the time came close I feared for the worst. I had experienced my first Pride here in NYC & the city seemed alive with possibilities. Only none for me. I went into work fully prepared to give my notice when Oz, my co-worker came rushing in telling me I could move in. Like so many things in my life it had to be dramatic & right at the last minute. My rent would be dramatically cheaper & I would be living in an area called Hell’s Kitchen on West 47th st.
I moved in at the end of June & I can’t even remember how I got all my stuff over there. It was a scorcher of a night & I was sitting in the living room with one of my 2 new roommates. The window was open bc of the heat & we had no AC. Out of nowhere I heard a shot. Apparently a woman decided to shoot her husband & they lived right across the street. Top that off with my new roommate telling me he was an escort I was like ‘What the hell have I gotten myself into now’? Oz, this new roommate who was the same age as my mom, & I fought on so many things. He had lived with his mother his whole life & hadn’t ever experienced what it was like living with other people. I had never experienced what it was like to live with the great & wonderful wizard of Oz himself. I thought this will last a few more months & I’ll need to get the fuck up out of here. Meanwhile, I got a job at New York Sports Club as a front desk person which at first made me uneasy. I wasn’t the work out, get muscled type. I had been to Roxy once & I felt so intimidated by the big, shirtless muscle guys dancing to boom boom music. I also took my first NY dance class. I had danced since I was a kid. I won dance contests, was always told I was the best dancer…. I was hot shit. Boy oh boy was I in for a surprise. I couldn’t keep up, I was about 4 counts behind & my endurance was crap. Instead of giving up, I trudged on.
I got a part dancing in a club scene in what would become the bomb Glitter. To this day I still don’t think that movie was THAT bad. Then again we all know I’m partial to Mariah & when I got to see her I was all nervous & couldn’t speak. Either way it was a fun experience. I was in Limelight dancing up a storm with my new friend Krizia. I had made quite a few new friends through the gym & I ended up crossing over from front desk to sales. Home life with Oz was still insane but I was really beginning to love the life of an NYC boy. Even though I still clearly sounded like a country boy. I would go out & people would just say, “I just wanna hear you tawwk” in a terrible NY tries Southern accent. When Christmas came around it was my first visit back to NC to see the family & friends. All of a sudden all the turmoil I had went through to get to NY & stay in NY seemed incredibly worth it. I was happy to see everyone & we took tons of pics of the family all together. It was to be one of the last times we would all be like that again.
Mid January of 01 was when I met some of the people who would become some of my best friends. My friend from work, Kevin, introduced me to some guys he knew…. Ej & Larry. We met at one of the places that would become our hangout every Tuesday night for months & months after. Pieces, a karaoke bar was the place where we could get our dance & sing on. This was also around the time I would learn about a lil party called Pop Rocks. Krizia & I would go all dressed up & jam out to Britney, ‘Nsync, Xtina, Madonna, anything pop basically. This was when I would meet my first real boyfriend in NY, Jason. It was a fun time for sure. Looking back at pictures I’m reminded of the beginnings of open bars, vodka drinks, late nights, glitter & having some of the best times with new friends & really finding my own niche in this wonderful city that is NYC. I got to see my first Madonna concert at MSG & even though the show was not as good as the ones she’s done since it holds a nice place in my heart bc it was my first. There was a tad of drama when one day on the way to work I was hit by a mini-van. I had been so excited to get away form driving. I had not had the best of luck in that department in NC. Luckily I was ok in the end, but as I went flying through the air the same could not have been said for a homeless man’s house. I remember being put in the ambulance & thinking damn I’m not gonna be able to go out tonight to Pop Rocks. Low & behold I went out with a semi busted up face & we called it a celebration of life night. Thinking of that I can not help but LOL because had that happened now I would be sitting my ass at home.
When that had happened I had been on my way to a new job that I had gotten. On top of my NYSC sales job I got a job at a dance school for children. Ballet Tech, Elliot Feld’s school of dance. I had never taken ballet class while in NC. I had gotten enough grief from kids in school for doing acrobatics & theater & the other dance. I basically was helping with the kids that they taught, ages 5 and up. Those kids gave me plenty of stories throughout the time I was there. Those of you who know reading this, all I need to say is ‘Special White Kids’ & it should make you laugh. A small school but an eye opening experience. We would audition children for the school & I would at times be the instructor. I remember the first time I met one of the instructor’s it was my first lesson in how different ballet is from other dance. She looked at me & said “You have bad feet & you don’t have a dancer’s body.” To this day I still suck at that style & I’m always a little jealous of the people who can triple turn & make it look so effortless. I had continued taking my other classes as well & became a much better dancer in my normal style. I would take a girl name Sheryl’s class. She would later go on to be in Gaga’s Just Dance video & she choreographed Beyonce’s Ego video just to name a few things. It was in these classes I met certain other people who went on to have a little bit of fame. I’ll not say names bc they’re kind of dicks now. But that’s the way it goes in anything I suppose.
The summer came & summer boys came & gone as well. Jason & I had broken up & had decided we were much better off as friends & he was returning to school down south anyway. I was single & ready to mingle & on Labor Day weekend I went out with Krizia & John to Webster Hall. it was here that I met 2 people who would become major players in my life for years & years to come. I was dancing on a box when I first saw Tim. Handsome & older but I couldn’t tell if he was straight or gay. He had the dancing ability of a very non-coordinated straight guy. Krizia went up to him & then introduced us & needless to say he was gay. I was smitten but in those days I was very innocent. I didn’t go home with people I just met & preferred going on a date first. He was ok with that & then introduced me to his friend Jaime. Jaime was a crazy bitch if there ever was one. Loca in la cabeza for sure. He was wearing a Princess t-shirt that was size small & was getting his dance on. We all hung out before I left to go home & I made plans with Tim for an actual date. A few days later, Tuesday September 11th I got a phone call from my friend Russell who was frantic. ”I just wanted to make sure you’re not at the World Trade Center.” Barely wiping the sleep from my eyes I asked, “Why?” He said turn on the tv.
From time to time we would have sales meetings down there & that month it was gonna be held somewhere else. I had friends that worked down there & they barely made it out with their lives. I remember the time so vividly. My family was frantic & trying to get through but all phone lines were jammed. The city had a smell that was just beyond describable. It was the only time I ever considered really moving. I was that scared. There was a unity though throughout New Yorkers. All of a sudden the place that was known to have nasty attitudes & nasty people became nothing but love. Within a few days I decided I couldn’t leave. New York was my home. To this day though I find it hard to go down to that site. I may have been 3 times since. Then again I tend to stay in my little areas. But we’ll get to that jaded NYer story later.
During that next year I learned all about love & what it was to actually think of someone other than yourself. While I had dated & a few boyfriends I fell absolutely head over fricking heels in love with Tim. 10 years older than me but this was his original problem with me. We would go on to be friends one minute & then lovers the next. My famous New Years Eve party of 01 was spent me getting my heart broken. A theme that would seem to go throughout the whole year. I guess ‘they’ really aren’t fucking kidding about that saying what you do at midnight you’ll do the rest of the year. This heartache went on to make some pretty good songs if I don’t say so myself. I continued my job at NYSC, Ballet Tech with some various jobs throughout dancing in a few clubs. I was also performing doing some of my own songs at a Cabaret bar. By doing that I had also met some people who produced demo’s & needed vocalists or writers for their music. I found myself going out to Staten Island of all places for one producer. Of all those tracks that I did I think I liked actually one of them. Mind you if I read about him getting famous I would hunt him down in a hot second.
I was still taking plenty of time to go out with friends on the weekend & these days I wasn’t so intimidated by the muscle boys of Roxy the way I was a few years back. I still had been anti drug anything & all my friends were amazed by the way I could dance & dance for hours & not be chemically enhanced. I saw the way they were & it would make me giggle. I saw the way it was like a hunt for good ecstasy at the club. I remember one night being with Chad & Shane & so many of my other friends. I was in good company & I was safe. I remember thinking, “Hell, why not?” I looked at my friend & said, “Gimme a hit of E.” He said, “What? Are you serious?” ”Sure, why the hell not?”
TO BE CONTINUED
Thursday, December 31, 2009
Nick's Top 100 of 2009
It’s that time of year again. Time for my top 100 of the year. Last year this lady topped my chart with her first single, which went to go on to #1 here in January. Since it was at #1 in my chart I couldn’t put it on this years. The same for Beyonce’s Single Ladies which was in my top 10 of last year. But, there were a few songs that were below the top 10 that has now made big jumps on this years chart. Like the song at #1. Once again it is my Gaga. She has the most singles with 5. Last year it was Rihanna….. this year not so much. I hate those first few singles on her album. B.E.P’s take over as well & Beyonce has 4 singles as well. Gaga also closes out the chart with a single that wasn’t released here in the states. Hope you enjoyed my top 100 as much as I did. Here’s to all the new music of 2010!!!!
1. Poker Face/Lady Gaga #1 (8 weeks) Australia/Canada (3 weeks) UK (1 week) US
2. Boom Boom Pow/Black Eyed Peas #1 (12 weeks) US/Australia (4 weeks) UK/Canada
3. I Gotta Feeling/Black Eyed Peas #1 (14 weeks) US/Canada/Australia UK
4. Love Game/Lady Gaga #2 Canada #4 Australia #5 US #19 UK
5. Love Takes Over/David Guetta & Kelly Rowland #1 UK/US Dance #6 Australia #22 Canada #76 US POP
6. Love Story/Taylor Swift #1 Australia/US Country/US AC #2 UK #4 Canada/US POP
7. Circus/Britney Spears #2 Canada #3 US #6 Australia #13 UK
8. My Life Would Suck Without You/Kelly Clarkson #1 (2 weeks) US/UK/Canada #4 Australia
9. Broken Strings/James Morrison feat. Nelly Furtado #1 Germany #2 UK #41 Canada
10. Empire State Of Mind/Jay-Z feat. Alicia Keys #1 (5 weeks) US #2 UK #3 Canada #4 Australia
11. Party In The USA/Miley Cyrus #2 US #3 Canada #6 Australia #11 UK
12. You Belong With Me/Taylor Swift #1 US AC/Country #2 US POP #3 Canada #5 Australia #30 UK
13. Good Girls Go Bad/Cobra Starship feat. Leighton Meester #5 Australia #7 US/Canada #17 UK
14. I Know You Want Me (Calle Ocho)/Pitbull #2 US/Canada #4 UK #6 Australia
15. Bad Romance/Lady Gaga #1 UK/Canada #2 US/Australia
16. Tik Tok/Ke$ha #1 Australia/Canada/US #5 UK (currently charting at #1)
17. Celebration/Madonna #1 US Dance/Italy/Russia #3 UK #5 Canada #40 Australia #71 US POP
18. Halo/Beyonce #1 US Dance #3 Canada/Australia #4 UK #5 US POP
19. Obsessed/Mariah Carey #1 US Dance #7 US POP #13 Australia #15 Canada #52 UK
20. Million Dollar Bill/Whitney Houston #1 US Dance #5 UK #16 US R&B #100 US POP
21. Hotel Room Service/Pitbull #7 Canada #8 US #9 UK #11 Australia
22. I’m Yours/Jason Mraz #1 US AC #3 Australia/Canada #6 US POP #11 UK
23. Paparazzi/Lady Gaga #2 Australia #3 Canada #4 UK #6 US
24. Meet Me Halfway/Black Eyed Peas #1 UK/Australia #5 Canada #7 US
25. Sexy Bitch/David Guetta & Akon #1 Australia/Canada/UK #6 US
26. Knock You Down/Keri Hilson feat. Kanye West & Ne-Yo #1 US R&B #3 US #5 UK #9 Canada #25 Australia
27. She Wolf/Shakira #1 US Dance #5 Canada #4 UK #11 US POP #18 Australia
28. Sober/Pink #6 Australia #8 Canada #9 UK #15 US
29. Sweet Dreams/Beyonce #1 US Dance #2 Australia #5 UK #10 US POP #17 Canada
30. 3/Britney Spears #1 US/Canada #6 Australia #7 UK
31. I Hate This Part/Pussycat Dolls #1 US Dance #5 Canada #10 Australia #11 US #12 UK
32. Please Don’t Leave Me/Pink #8 Canada #11 Australia #12 UK #17 US
33. If You Seek Amy/Britney Spears #11 Australia #13 Canada #19 US #20 UK
34. Right Round/Flo Rida feat. Ke$ha #1 US/UK/Australia/Canada
35. Use Somebody/Kings of Leon #2 Australia/UK #4 US #8 Canada
36. Untouched/Veronica’s #2 Australia #5 Canada #8 UK #17 US
37. Heavy Cross/Gossip #7 Australia #14 US Dance #37 UK
38. Waking Up In Vegas/Katy Perry #1 US Dance #2 Canada #9 US POP #11 Australia #19 UK
39. Already Gone/Kelly Clarkson #13 US #15 Canada #66 UK
40. Happy/Leona Lewis #2 UK #15 Canada #22 Australia #31 US
41. Don’t Trust Me/3OH!3 #6 Canada #7 US #21 UK
42. Evacuate The Dancefloor/Cascada #1 UK US Dance #3 Australia #4 Canada #25 US POP
43. Fire Burning/Sean Kingston #2 Canada #5 US #12 UK
44. Blame It/Jamie Foxx feat. T-Pain #1 (14 weeks) US R&B #2 US POP #7 Canada
45. New In Town/Little Boots #13 UK
46. Fallin’ For You/Colbie Caillat #3 US AC #12 US POP #28 Canada
47. Great DJ/Ting Tings #3 US Dance #33 UK #52 Australia
48. Fight For This Love/Cheryl Cole #1 UK
49. Gives You Hell/All American Rejects #3 Australia #4 Canada/US #18 UK
50. Make Me/Janet Jackson #1 US Dance
51. I Took The Night/Chelley (no chart info)
52. Jai Ho (You Are My Destiny)/ A R Rahman & The Pussycat Dolls #1 Australia #3 UK #4 Canada #15 US
53. Love Sex Magic/Ciara & Justin Timberlake #5 Australia/UK #6 Canada #10 US
54. Ride My Tempo/Ida Corr #1 (6 weeks) German dance #8 Denmark
55. Fuck You/Lily Allen #1 US Dance #23 Australia #37 Canada #68 US POP
56. Break Your Heart/Taio Cruz #1 UK
57. I Do Not Hook Up/Kelly Clarkson #9 Australia #13 Canada #20 US #36 UK
58. Make Her Say/Kid Cudi feat. Kanye West & Common #11 US Rap #43 US POP
59. Day N’ Nite/Kid Cudi #2 UK #3 US #10 Canada #15 Australia
60. The Climb/Miley Cyrus #4 US #5 Australia/Canada #11 UK
61. Bad Boys/Alexandra Burke feat. Flo Rida #1 UK
62. Patron Tequila/Paradiso Girls feat. Eve & Lil’ Jon #3 US Dance
63. Run This Town/Jay-Z feat. Kanye West & Rihanna #1 UK #2 US #6 Canada #6 Australia
64. Now I’m That Bitch/Livvi Franc #1 US Dance #40 UK
65. Fireflies/Owl City #1 US #2 Australia/Canada
66. Down/Jay-Sean feat. Lil’ Wayne #1 US #2 Australia #3 Canada/UK
67. Mama Do (Uh Oh)/Pixie Lott #1 UK
68. Bulletproof/La Roux #1 UK/US Dance #5 Australia #45 Canada
69. Get Sexy/Sugababes #2 UK
70. Funhouse/Pink #6 Australia #21 Canada #29 UK #44 US
71. The Loving Kind/Girls Aloud #10 UK
72. Heartbreak (Make Me A Dancer)/Freemason’s feat. Sophie Ellis-Bextor #2 UK Dance #13 UK POP
73. Beating My Heart/Jon McLaughlin #18 US Adult Top 40
74. Diva/Beyonce #1 US Dance #3 US R&B #19 US POP #40 Australia
75. The Boy Does Nothing/Alesha Dixon#5 UK #8 Australia
76. Work/Saturdays #22 UK
77. The One/Mary J. Blige feat. Drake #32 US R&B #63 US POP
78. The Spell/Alphabeat #20 UK
79. Krazy/Pitbull feat. Lil’ Jon #11 US Rap #30 US POP #38 Australia
80. Take Me Back/Tinchy Stryder feat. Taio Cruz #3 UK
81. The Fear/Lily Allen #1 UK/US Dance #3 Australia #33 Canada #80 US POP
82. Don’t Stop Believin’/Glee Cast #4 US #5 Australia
83. Doesn’t Mean Anything/Alicia Keys #8 UK #14 US R&B #60 US POP
84. Goodbye/Kristina DeBarge #3 US Dance #11 US Pop #15 Canada
85. I Don’t Believe You/Pink #23 Australia
86. Ego/Beyonce #3 US R&B #6 Brazil #39 US POP
87. Want/Natalie Imbruglia #4 Italy #22 Australia
88. Whatcha Say/Jayson Derulo #1 US #3 Canada/UK #6 Australia
89. Did It Again/Shakira #4 US Latin #26 UK
90. Bottle Pop/Pussycat Dolls feat. Snoop Dogg #1 US Dance #17 Australia
91. Hush Hush/Pussycat Dolls #1 US Dance #10 Australia #17 UK #41 Canada #73 US POP
92. Thinking Of You/Katy Perry #24 Canada #27 UK #29 US #43 Australia
93. Remedy/Little Boots #6 UK
94. White Horse/Taylor Swift #2 US Country #13 US POP
95. Love Etc./Pet Shop Boys #1 US Dance #14 UK
96. I Want To Know What Love Is/Mariah Carey #2 US Dance #10 US AC #19 UK #40 US R&B #60 US POP
97. Burn/Jessica Mauboy #1 Australia
98. Second Chance/Shinedown #1 US Rock #7 US #29 Canada #19 Australia
99. We Are Golden/Mika #4 UK #5 US Dance #10 Australia #15 Canada
100. Eh, Eh (Nothing Else I Can Say)/Lady Gaga #2 Sweden #15 Australia #68 Canada
1. Poker Face/Lady Gaga #1 (8 weeks) Australia/Canada (3 weeks) UK (1 week) US
2. Boom Boom Pow/Black Eyed Peas #1 (12 weeks) US/Australia (4 weeks) UK/Canada
3. I Gotta Feeling/Black Eyed Peas #1 (14 weeks) US/Canada/Australia UK
4. Love Game/Lady Gaga #2 Canada #4 Australia #5 US #19 UK
5. Love Takes Over/David Guetta & Kelly Rowland #1 UK/US Dance #6 Australia #22 Canada #76 US POP
6. Love Story/Taylor Swift #1 Australia/US Country/US AC #2 UK #4 Canada/US POP
7. Circus/Britney Spears #2 Canada #3 US #6 Australia #13 UK
8. My Life Would Suck Without You/Kelly Clarkson #1 (2 weeks) US/UK/Canada #4 Australia
9. Broken Strings/James Morrison feat. Nelly Furtado #1 Germany #2 UK #41 Canada
10. Empire State Of Mind/Jay-Z feat. Alicia Keys #1 (5 weeks) US #2 UK #3 Canada #4 Australia
11. Party In The USA/Miley Cyrus #2 US #3 Canada #6 Australia #11 UK
12. You Belong With Me/Taylor Swift #1 US AC/Country #2 US POP #3 Canada #5 Australia #30 UK
13. Good Girls Go Bad/Cobra Starship feat. Leighton Meester #5 Australia #7 US/Canada #17 UK
14. I Know You Want Me (Calle Ocho)/Pitbull #2 US/Canada #4 UK #6 Australia
15. Bad Romance/Lady Gaga #1 UK/Canada #2 US/Australia
16. Tik Tok/Ke$ha #1 Australia/Canada/US #5 UK (currently charting at #1)
17. Celebration/Madonna #1 US Dance/Italy/Russia #3 UK #5 Canada #40 Australia #71 US POP
18. Halo/Beyonce #1 US Dance #3 Canada/Australia #4 UK #5 US POP
19. Obsessed/Mariah Carey #1 US Dance #7 US POP #13 Australia #15 Canada #52 UK
20. Million Dollar Bill/Whitney Houston #1 US Dance #5 UK #16 US R&B #100 US POP
21. Hotel Room Service/Pitbull #7 Canada #8 US #9 UK #11 Australia
22. I’m Yours/Jason Mraz #1 US AC #3 Australia/Canada #6 US POP #11 UK
23. Paparazzi/Lady Gaga #2 Australia #3 Canada #4 UK #6 US
24. Meet Me Halfway/Black Eyed Peas #1 UK/Australia #5 Canada #7 US
25. Sexy Bitch/David Guetta & Akon #1 Australia/Canada/UK #6 US
26. Knock You Down/Keri Hilson feat. Kanye West & Ne-Yo #1 US R&B #3 US #5 UK #9 Canada #25 Australia
27. She Wolf/Shakira #1 US Dance #5 Canada #4 UK #11 US POP #18 Australia
28. Sober/Pink #6 Australia #8 Canada #9 UK #15 US
29. Sweet Dreams/Beyonce #1 US Dance #2 Australia #5 UK #10 US POP #17 Canada
30. 3/Britney Spears #1 US/Canada #6 Australia #7 UK
31. I Hate This Part/Pussycat Dolls #1 US Dance #5 Canada #10 Australia #11 US #12 UK
32. Please Don’t Leave Me/Pink #8 Canada #11 Australia #12 UK #17 US
33. If You Seek Amy/Britney Spears #11 Australia #13 Canada #19 US #20 UK
34. Right Round/Flo Rida feat. Ke$ha #1 US/UK/Australia/Canada
35. Use Somebody/Kings of Leon #2 Australia/UK #4 US #8 Canada
36. Untouched/Veronica’s #2 Australia #5 Canada #8 UK #17 US
37. Heavy Cross/Gossip #7 Australia #14 US Dance #37 UK
38. Waking Up In Vegas/Katy Perry #1 US Dance #2 Canada #9 US POP #11 Australia #19 UK
39. Already Gone/Kelly Clarkson #13 US #15 Canada #66 UK
40. Happy/Leona Lewis #2 UK #15 Canada #22 Australia #31 US
41. Don’t Trust Me/3OH!3 #6 Canada #7 US #21 UK
42. Evacuate The Dancefloor/Cascada #1 UK US Dance #3 Australia #4 Canada #25 US POP
43. Fire Burning/Sean Kingston #2 Canada #5 US #12 UK
44. Blame It/Jamie Foxx feat. T-Pain #1 (14 weeks) US R&B #2 US POP #7 Canada
45. New In Town/Little Boots #13 UK
46. Fallin’ For You/Colbie Caillat #3 US AC #12 US POP #28 Canada
47. Great DJ/Ting Tings #3 US Dance #33 UK #52 Australia
48. Fight For This Love/Cheryl Cole #1 UK
49. Gives You Hell/All American Rejects #3 Australia #4 Canada/US #18 UK
50. Make Me/Janet Jackson #1 US Dance
51. I Took The Night/Chelley (no chart info)
52. Jai Ho (You Are My Destiny)/ A R Rahman & The Pussycat Dolls #1 Australia #3 UK #4 Canada #15 US
53. Love Sex Magic/Ciara & Justin Timberlake #5 Australia/UK #6 Canada #10 US
54. Ride My Tempo/Ida Corr #1 (6 weeks) German dance #8 Denmark
55. Fuck You/Lily Allen #1 US Dance #23 Australia #37 Canada #68 US POP
56. Break Your Heart/Taio Cruz #1 UK
57. I Do Not Hook Up/Kelly Clarkson #9 Australia #13 Canada #20 US #36 UK
58. Make Her Say/Kid Cudi feat. Kanye West & Common #11 US Rap #43 US POP
59. Day N’ Nite/Kid Cudi #2 UK #3 US #10 Canada #15 Australia
60. The Climb/Miley Cyrus #4 US #5 Australia/Canada #11 UK
61. Bad Boys/Alexandra Burke feat. Flo Rida #1 UK
62. Patron Tequila/Paradiso Girls feat. Eve & Lil’ Jon #3 US Dance
63. Run This Town/Jay-Z feat. Kanye West & Rihanna #1 UK #2 US #6 Canada #6 Australia
64. Now I’m That Bitch/Livvi Franc #1 US Dance #40 UK
65. Fireflies/Owl City #1 US #2 Australia/Canada
66. Down/Jay-Sean feat. Lil’ Wayne #1 US #2 Australia #3 Canada/UK
67. Mama Do (Uh Oh)/Pixie Lott #1 UK
68. Bulletproof/La Roux #1 UK/US Dance #5 Australia #45 Canada
69. Get Sexy/Sugababes #2 UK
70. Funhouse/Pink #6 Australia #21 Canada #29 UK #44 US
71. The Loving Kind/Girls Aloud #10 UK
72. Heartbreak (Make Me A Dancer)/Freemason’s feat. Sophie Ellis-Bextor #2 UK Dance #13 UK POP
73. Beating My Heart/Jon McLaughlin #18 US Adult Top 40
74. Diva/Beyonce #1 US Dance #3 US R&B #19 US POP #40 Australia
75. The Boy Does Nothing/Alesha Dixon#5 UK #8 Australia
76. Work/Saturdays #22 UK
77. The One/Mary J. Blige feat. Drake #32 US R&B #63 US POP
78. The Spell/Alphabeat #20 UK
79. Krazy/Pitbull feat. Lil’ Jon #11 US Rap #30 US POP #38 Australia
80. Take Me Back/Tinchy Stryder feat. Taio Cruz #3 UK
81. The Fear/Lily Allen #1 UK/US Dance #3 Australia #33 Canada #80 US POP
82. Don’t Stop Believin’/Glee Cast #4 US #5 Australia
83. Doesn’t Mean Anything/Alicia Keys #8 UK #14 US R&B #60 US POP
84. Goodbye/Kristina DeBarge #3 US Dance #11 US Pop #15 Canada
85. I Don’t Believe You/Pink #23 Australia
86. Ego/Beyonce #3 US R&B #6 Brazil #39 US POP
87. Want/Natalie Imbruglia #4 Italy #22 Australia
88. Whatcha Say/Jayson Derulo #1 US #3 Canada/UK #6 Australia
89. Did It Again/Shakira #4 US Latin #26 UK
90. Bottle Pop/Pussycat Dolls feat. Snoop Dogg #1 US Dance #17 Australia
91. Hush Hush/Pussycat Dolls #1 US Dance #10 Australia #17 UK #41 Canada #73 US POP
92. Thinking Of You/Katy Perry #24 Canada #27 UK #29 US #43 Australia
93. Remedy/Little Boots #6 UK
94. White Horse/Taylor Swift #2 US Country #13 US POP
95. Love Etc./Pet Shop Boys #1 US Dance #14 UK
96. I Want To Know What Love Is/Mariah Carey #2 US Dance #10 US AC #19 UK #40 US R&B #60 US POP
97. Burn/Jessica Mauboy #1 Australia
98. Second Chance/Shinedown #1 US Rock #7 US #29 Canada #19 Australia
99. We Are Golden/Mika #4 UK #5 US Dance #10 Australia #15 Canada
100. Eh, Eh (Nothing Else I Can Say)/Lady Gaga #2 Sweden #15 Australia #68 Canada
Monday, December 28, 2009
The Island of Misfit Boys
If we’re on the Island of Unwanted Toys
We’ll miss all the fun with the girls and the boys
When Christmas Day is here
The most wonderful, wonderful, wonderful, wonderful, wonderful day of the year!
Another year, another Christmas. My sentiments were wake me up when it ends. Not to say I didn’t have a lovely time. Scott & I hightailed it to the Bronx for my friend & co-worker’s Christmas Eve dinner. I had had such a good time there for Thanksgiving & Anabel’s food is amazing so this was sure to be a goodie. When we stepped off the elevator we could hear the sound of loud club beats. Scott & I looked at each other like ‘alright now’. Even though Anabel had never met Scott & I had not met the rest of her family, they welcomed us with huge open arms. We ate & ate & ate some more. My body was like WTF. We also drank a lot but it was one of those rare occasions that since we ate so much we never got drunk. Which was fine because we were in wonderful company. The music blasted from the speakers & it was old club music I hadn’t heard in a long time. It was definitely a dinner I was not used to. I had brought a Xmas cd that I had made & I laughed & told Anabel had I known it would be club beats I would have just made plenty of those cds. We left with full bellies & by the time I got home all I could do was lie on my bed & wait for all the food to digest. I thought about how it’s funny this year families I had not even known had been so open to me. It made me thankful.
On my wall I have some photo’s of me that marked some happy times through my life. Me as a baby laughing at something I’m sure my stuffed animal was telling me. Me on the beach getting my tan when I was probably around 6. Me with my dance troupe when I first came to NYC. Me with my family the first Xmas I had come down from NYC. It was the last time all of us were together & we looked truly happy. My sisters were really young, Auntie M was with her last husband, my mom actually looking happy, my grandma still with us. Had I known then that she would not be here just a few years after I would have probably embraced the moment longer. But that’s just the way it goes I suppose. Flash forward to now & that picture is just a memory. I’ve still not spoken to my mother & still not sure that I could. I suppose I’m still just not ready to make nice. I haven’t heard from my sisters so I don’t know how to take that. I think I speak to my grandfather maybe once a year. At least my aunt & I still have each other. As long as I can remember we have been the black sheep. Bah bah bah is what we’ll keep singing.
Christmas day I woke up & decided that I would spend the day at the movies. I had no other plans so why not? I got in the shower & turned the water on. Seconds go by & it was still freezing cold. Another minute. Well I’ll be damned… happy cold shower Xmas. Luckily, my gym was one of 3 NYSC gyms open. So I went there & decided to work out & get my shower on. I expected it to be empty but it was a lil crowded. Jordan had also decided to come to get his fitness on. I thought kudos to you all but if I didn’t have to be here I wouldn’t. I ended up spending Christmas with Jordan at his apt, the apt I had once lived in. We watched National Lampoon’s Christmas Vacation which IS kind of a tradition for me. The old lady never fails to make me laugh & when Randy Quaid’s character say’s ‘The shitter’s full. Merry Xmas!’ always gets a hearty laugh from me as well. We had a lil dinner & listened to music & had some drinks. I was fine until I began to think about my Christmas from 08. A few of us who had no family here got together to have our own little Christmas & we decided to do it at Jason’s. Our little island of misfit boys banded together & had a wonderful time. Had I known that would be my last Christmas with him I would have held onto that moment a little longer. So thinking about that made me a little emotional. I’m always ok until I think about it. I can be the king of locking my feelings away & then I let my guard down & those feelings rush to the surface. I swear I get more emotional as I get older. I guess that’s what life does to you. I was talking with my aunt & we made a pact. This time next year for Xmas we are gonna be together. Somewhere warm would be absolutely perfect. I would like to come back with a tan that’s for sure.
Having time off from work this week is absolutely wonderful. I went out last night which is the first time I’ve been out on a Sunday night since almost a year ago. I normally just have my Chinese & watch my shows. Scott, Sean, Paul, Isaac & I went out to Hiro & had a blast. The music was good & the boys were surely acting like some misfits. I didn’t get home until almost 7 which hasn’t happened in a long, long time. Now I’ll be chilling out until New Year’s Eve. I’m looking forward to it. A new year, the beginning of a new decade. 2009 has been a little rough. I seem to have better times during the even years. SO here’s to this one being better. May you all sip on some champagne or vodka or whatever poison it may be. I will most likely be doing both.
We’ll miss all the fun with the girls and the boys
When Christmas Day is here
The most wonderful, wonderful, wonderful, wonderful, wonderful day of the year!
Another year, another Christmas. My sentiments were wake me up when it ends. Not to say I didn’t have a lovely time. Scott & I hightailed it to the Bronx for my friend & co-worker’s Christmas Eve dinner. I had had such a good time there for Thanksgiving & Anabel’s food is amazing so this was sure to be a goodie. When we stepped off the elevator we could hear the sound of loud club beats. Scott & I looked at each other like ‘alright now’. Even though Anabel had never met Scott & I had not met the rest of her family, they welcomed us with huge open arms. We ate & ate & ate some more. My body was like WTF. We also drank a lot but it was one of those rare occasions that since we ate so much we never got drunk. Which was fine because we were in wonderful company. The music blasted from the speakers & it was old club music I hadn’t heard in a long time. It was definitely a dinner I was not used to. I had brought a Xmas cd that I had made & I laughed & told Anabel had I known it would be club beats I would have just made plenty of those cds. We left with full bellies & by the time I got home all I could do was lie on my bed & wait for all the food to digest. I thought about how it’s funny this year families I had not even known had been so open to me. It made me thankful.
On my wall I have some photo’s of me that marked some happy times through my life. Me as a baby laughing at something I’m sure my stuffed animal was telling me. Me on the beach getting my tan when I was probably around 6. Me with my dance troupe when I first came to NYC. Me with my family the first Xmas I had come down from NYC. It was the last time all of us were together & we looked truly happy. My sisters were really young, Auntie M was with her last husband, my mom actually looking happy, my grandma still with us. Had I known then that she would not be here just a few years after I would have probably embraced the moment longer. But that’s just the way it goes I suppose. Flash forward to now & that picture is just a memory. I’ve still not spoken to my mother & still not sure that I could. I suppose I’m still just not ready to make nice. I haven’t heard from my sisters so I don’t know how to take that. I think I speak to my grandfather maybe once a year. At least my aunt & I still have each other. As long as I can remember we have been the black sheep. Bah bah bah is what we’ll keep singing.
Christmas day I woke up & decided that I would spend the day at the movies. I had no other plans so why not? I got in the shower & turned the water on. Seconds go by & it was still freezing cold. Another minute. Well I’ll be damned… happy cold shower Xmas. Luckily, my gym was one of 3 NYSC gyms open. So I went there & decided to work out & get my shower on. I expected it to be empty but it was a lil crowded. Jordan had also decided to come to get his fitness on. I thought kudos to you all but if I didn’t have to be here I wouldn’t. I ended up spending Christmas with Jordan at his apt, the apt I had once lived in. We watched National Lampoon’s Christmas Vacation which IS kind of a tradition for me. The old lady never fails to make me laugh & when Randy Quaid’s character say’s ‘The shitter’s full. Merry Xmas!’ always gets a hearty laugh from me as well. We had a lil dinner & listened to music & had some drinks. I was fine until I began to think about my Christmas from 08. A few of us who had no family here got together to have our own little Christmas & we decided to do it at Jason’s. Our little island of misfit boys banded together & had a wonderful time. Had I known that would be my last Christmas with him I would have held onto that moment a little longer. So thinking about that made me a little emotional. I’m always ok until I think about it. I can be the king of locking my feelings away & then I let my guard down & those feelings rush to the surface. I swear I get more emotional as I get older. I guess that’s what life does to you. I was talking with my aunt & we made a pact. This time next year for Xmas we are gonna be together. Somewhere warm would be absolutely perfect. I would like to come back with a tan that’s for sure.
Having time off from work this week is absolutely wonderful. I went out last night which is the first time I’ve been out on a Sunday night since almost a year ago. I normally just have my Chinese & watch my shows. Scott, Sean, Paul, Isaac & I went out to Hiro & had a blast. The music was good & the boys were surely acting like some misfits. I didn’t get home until almost 7 which hasn’t happened in a long, long time. Now I’ll be chilling out until New Year’s Eve. I’m looking forward to it. A new year, the beginning of a new decade. 2009 has been a little rough. I seem to have better times during the even years. SO here’s to this one being better. May you all sip on some champagne or vodka or whatever poison it may be. I will most likely be doing both.
Wednesday, December 23, 2009
Nick's Top 100 of the Decade
Figuring out my top 100 of the decade was not the easiest of tasks. There have been so so many favorites that I haven’t included because I tried to keep this consistent with other big hits on other charts. I could have easily had all my ladies of pop dominate this but I thought not. Billboard & I agreed who should have the #1 song, but after that we differ. A lot of their songs show up on this one & I also have a lot of songs that were not hits here in the US or missed their top 100. Here’s how I came up with the ones in the top 10. We Belong Together was at #1 for 14 weeks & brought Mariah back to the tops of the chart after not charting in the top 10 with Thank God I Found You in 2000. The Emancipation of Mimi was the biggest selling album of 2005 & not only did she receive the #1 song of this decade but also had the #1 in the 90’s with One Sweet Day. Beyonce is the female artist with the most charted singles of this decade & if you count the ones with Destiny’s Child it puts her even further in front. Madonna toured 3 times & had the biggest selling tour by a female artist with Sticky & Sweet. Music should have made Billboard’s top 100 so I felt the need to pump it up even higher on my chart. The first American Idol winner was Kelly Clarkson & with her single Since U Been Gone, she showed she was more than just a one hit idol wonder. Gaga has become one of my most favorite artist’s with just one album & one EP, but I think she is here to stay. Kylie has been around since the late 80’s & this song put her back on everyone’s map all over the world. It went to #1 in 40 countries around the world. Bleeding Love by Leona Lewis was inescapable & the #1 single in the UK of 2007. This X-Factor winner has grace & poise that is not seen by most pop artist’s out there. Rihanna was unstoppable with her singles from Good Girl Gone Bad & Umbrella was the biggest & most covered song in 2007. It also has the most weeks at #1 by any other artist in the UK. Amy Winehouse may be a hot mess but Back To Black was my favorite album of 2007. Rehab was MY anthem & it was her biggest hit to date. The lone male in this top 10 that isn’t featured is Justin Timberlake who showed he was more than just the curly haired lead of a boy band with his first debut album. But, with his first single from Future Sex/Love Sound he had us all wondering where the hell had sexy been? At least it was back. Big props to Jay-Z for being featured in 2 of the songs in this top 10. I’ve included how many weeks the song spent at its position here in the US but not in other countries. Hope you enjoy the rest!
1. We Belong Together/Mariah Carey #1(14 weeks) US/Australia #2 UK
2. Crazy In Love/Beyonce feat. Jay-Z #1 (8 weeks) US/UK #2 Australia/UK
3. Music/Madonna #1 (3 weeks) US/UK/Australia/Canada
4. Just Dance/Lady Gaga feat. Colby O’Donis #1 (3 weeks) US/UK/Australia/Canada
5. Since U Been Gone/Kelly Clarkson #2 US #3 Australia #5 UK
6. Can’t Get You Out Of My Head #1 (4 weeks) UK/Australia/US Dance #7 US POP
7. Bleeding Love/Leona Lewis #1 (4 weeks) US/UK/Australia/Canada
8. Umbrella/Rihanna feat. Jay-Z #1 (8 weeks) US (9 weeks) UK #1 Australia/Canada
9. Rehab/Amy Winehouse #7 UK #9 US #10 Canada
10. SexyBack/Justin Timberlake #1 (6 weeks) US/UK/Australia #3 Canada
11. Lady Marmalade/Christina Aguilera, Pink, Mya & Lil’ Kim #1 (5 weeks) US/UK/Australia
12. Yeah!/Usher feat. Ludacris & Lil’ John #1 (12 weeks) US/UK/Australia/Canada
13. Gold Digger/Kanye West feat Jamie Foxx #1 (10 weeks) US/Australia #2 UK/Canada
14. All For You/Janet Jackson #1 (7 weeks) US/Canada #3 UK #5 Australia
15. Toxic/Britney Spears #1 UK/Australia/Canada/US Dance #9 UK POP
16. Fallin’/Alicia Keys #1 (5 weeks) US #3 UK #7Australia
17. Single Ladies/Beyonce #1 (4 weeks) US/UK #2 Canada #5 Australia
18. Boom Boom Pow #1 (12 weeks) US/UK/Australia/Canada
19. Hot In Herre/Nelly #1 (6 weeks) US/Canada #3 Australia #4 UK
20. Poker Face/Lady Gaga #1 US/UK/Australia/Canada
21. Hollaback Girl/Gwen Stefani #1 (4 weeks) US/Australia #8 UK #12 Canada
22. Hung Up/Madonna #1 UK/Australia/Canada/US Dance #7 US POP
23. Don’t Cha/Pussycat Dolls feat. Busta Rhymes #1 UK/Canada/Australia/US Dance #2 US POP
24. No One/Alicia Keys #1 (9 weeks) US #2 Canada #3 Australia #6 UK
25. Beautiful/Christina Aguilera #1 UK/Canada/Australia/US Dance #2 US POP
26. I’m Real/Jennifer Lopez feat. Ja Rule #1 (5 weeks) US #4 UK #6 Canada
27. Promiscuous/Nelly Furtado feat. Timbaland #1 (6 weeks) US/Canada #2 Australia #3 UK
28. Be Without You/Mary J. Blige #1 (16 weeks) US R&B #3 US POP
29. Baby Boy/Beyonce feat. Sean Paul #1 (9 weeks) US #2 UK #3 Australia
30. SOS/Rihanna #1 (3 weeks) US/Australia #2 UK/Canada
31. Lose Yourself/Eminem #1 (12 weeks) US/Australia/Canada/UK
32. I Kissed A Girl/Katy Perry #1 (7 weeks) US/UK/Australia/Canada
33. I Gotta Feeling/Black Eyed Peas #1 (14 weeks) US/UK/Canada/Australia
34. You’re Beautiful/James Blunt #1 US/UK/Canada #2 Australia
35. Chasing Pavements/Adele #2 UK #21 US #28 Canada
36. Just Like A Pill/Pink #1 UK #2 Australia #4 Canada #8 US
37. If I Ain’t Got You/Alicia Keys #1 (6 weeks) US R&B #4 US POP #18 UK
38. Ain’t It Funny(remix)/Jennifer Lopez feat. Ja Rule & Caddillac Tah #1 (6 weeks) US #4 UK #9 Australia #12 Canada
39. U Remind Me/Usher #1 (4 weeks) US #3 UK #4 Australia
40. Womanizer/Britney Spears #1 US/Canada #3 UK #5 Australia
41. Work It/Missy Elliot #1 US R&B #2 US POP #6 UK/Australia
42. Low/Flo Rida feat. T-Pain #1 (10 weeks) US/Australia/Canada #2 UK
43. Touch My Body/Mariah Carey #1 (2 weeks) US #2 Canada #5 UK #17 Australia
44. I’m Yours/Jason Mraz #1 (16 weeks) US AC/UK #3 Australia/Canada #6 US POP
45. Hips Don’t Lie/Shakira Feat. Wyclef Jean #1 (4 weeks) US/UK/Australia #2 Canada
46. Don’t Stop The Music/Rihanna #1 Australia/US Dance #2 Canada #3 US POP #4 UK
47. Say My Name/Destiny’s Child #1 (3 weeks) US/Australia #2 Canada #3 UK
48. Irreplaceable/Beyonce #1 (10 weeks) US/Australia #4 UK
49. Crazy/Gnarls Barkley #1 (9 weeks) UK/Canada #2 US/Australia
50. Makes Me Wonder/Maroon 5 #1 (3 weeks) US/Canada #2 UK #6 Australia
51. Milkshake/Kelis #1 US Dance #2 Australia/UK #3 US POP
52. Buttons/Pussycat Dolls feat. Snoop Dogg #1 US Dance #2 Australia #3 UK/US POP
53. Apologize/Timbaland feat. One Republic #1 Australia/Canada #2 US #3 UK
54. Family Affair/Mary J. Blige #1 (6 weeks) US #8 Australia/UK
55. Get Ur Freak On/Missy Elliot #3 US R&B #4 UK #7 US POP
56. Doesn’t Really Matter/Janet Jackson #1 (3 weeks) US #5 UK #6 Canada #28 Australia
57. All I Have/Jennifer Lopez feat. LL Cool J #1 (4 weeks) US #2 UK/Australia #6 Canada
58. On A Night Like This/Kylie Minogue #1 Australia #2 UK
59. Can’t Touch It/Ricki-Lee #2 Australia
60. Glamorous/Fergie feat. Ludacris #1 (2 weeks) US #2 Australia #6 UK #12 Canada
61. Broken Strings/James Morrison feat. Nelly Furtado #1 Germany #2 UK #41 Canada
62. The Sweet Escape/Gwen Stefani feat. Akon #2 US/UK/Australia/Canada
63. Lose My Breath/Destiny’s Child #2 UK #3 US/Australia
64. Hey Ya!/Outkast #1 (9 weeks) US/Australia/Canada #3 UK
65. Get Busy/Sean Paul #1 (3 weeks) US #4 UK/Australia
66. In Da Club/50 Cent #1 (9 weeks) US/Australia/Canada #3 UK
67. Dance Wiv Me/Dizzee Rascal feat. Calvin Harris #1 (4 weeks) UK #13 Australia
68. I Don’t Feel Like Dancin’/Scissor Sisters #1 (4 weeks) UK/Australia #2 US Dance Airplay
69. Let Me Blow Your Mind/Eve feat. Gwen Stefani #2 US #4 UK/Australia
70. Underneath It All/No Doubt feat. Lady Saw #3 US #18 UK #28 Australia #35 Canada
71. Love Story/Taylor Swift #1 US Country/Australia #2 UK #4 US POP/Canada
72. U + Ur Hand/Pink #5 Australia #9 US #10 UK #31 Canada
73. Again/Lenny Kravitz #4 US #19 UK #30 Australia
74. Cry Me A River/Justin Timberlake #2 UK/Australia #3 US
75. Get Right/Jennifer Lopez #1 UK/US Dance #3 Australia/Canada #12 US POP
76. Bootylicious/Destiny’s Child #1 US #2 UK #4 Canada/Australia
77. Come On Over Baby (All I Want Is You)/Christina Aguilera #1 (3 weeks) US/Canada #3 Australia #8 UK
78. My Immortal/Evanescence #1 Canada #7 UK/US #11 Australia
79. Bad Day/Daniel Powter #1 (4 weeks) US #2 UK #3 Australia #7 Canada
80. Breathe/Faith Hill #1 US Country #2 US POP
81. Don’t Tell Me/Madonna #1 Canada/US Dance #4 US/UK #7 Australia
82. My Life Would Suck Without You/Kelly Clarkson #1 (2 weeks) US/UK/Canada #4 Australia
83. Independent Women (part 1)/Destiny’s Child #1 (11 weeks) US/UK/Canada #3 Australia
84. Black & Gold/Sam Sparro #2 UK #4 Australia #8 US Dance Airplay
85. How Many Licks?/Lil’ Kim feat. Sisqo #11 US Rap #36 US R&B #75 US POP
86. Try Again/Aaliyah #1 US #5 UK/Germany #8 Australia
87. The Way You Move/Outkast feat. Sleepy Brown #1 US #7 UK/Australia
88. Always On Time/Ja Rule feat. Ashanti #1 (2 weeks) US #2 Canada #3 Australia #6 UK
89. Shake It Off/Mariah Carey #2 US #6 Australia #9 UK/b-side of Get Your Number
90. Dilemma/Nelly feat. Kelly Rowland #1 (7 weeks) US/UK/Australia/Canada
91. Thank You/Dido #1 US AC/Canada #3 UK/US POP
92. Mr. Brightside/The Killers #10 UK/US
93. Girlfriend/Avril Lavigne #1 US/Canada/Australia #2 UK
94. Goodies/Ciara #1 (7 weeks) US/UK/Canada #19 Australia
95. I Knew I Loved You/Savage Garden #1 (4 weeks) US/Canada #4 Australia # 10 UK
96. Hero/Enrique Iglesias #1 US Latin/UK/Australia #3 US POP
97. Unwritten/Natasha Bedingfield #1 US Dance/AC #4 Canada #5 US POP #6 UK
98. Before He Cheats/Carrie Underwood #1 (5 weeks) US Country #4 Canada #8 US POP
99. Mercy/Duffy #1 (5 weeks) UK #11 Canada # 26 Australia #27 US
100. Foolish/Ashanti #1 (10 weeks) US #4 UK #6 Australia
1. We Belong Together/Mariah Carey #1(14 weeks) US/Australia #2 UK
2. Crazy In Love/Beyonce feat. Jay-Z #1 (8 weeks) US/UK #2 Australia/UK
3. Music/Madonna #1 (3 weeks) US/UK/Australia/Canada
4. Just Dance/Lady Gaga feat. Colby O’Donis #1 (3 weeks) US/UK/Australia/Canada
5. Since U Been Gone/Kelly Clarkson #2 US #3 Australia #5 UK
6. Can’t Get You Out Of My Head #1 (4 weeks) UK/Australia/US Dance #7 US POP
7. Bleeding Love/Leona Lewis #1 (4 weeks) US/UK/Australia/Canada
8. Umbrella/Rihanna feat. Jay-Z #1 (8 weeks) US (9 weeks) UK #1 Australia/Canada
9. Rehab/Amy Winehouse #7 UK #9 US #10 Canada
10. SexyBack/Justin Timberlake #1 (6 weeks) US/UK/Australia #3 Canada
11. Lady Marmalade/Christina Aguilera, Pink, Mya & Lil’ Kim #1 (5 weeks) US/UK/Australia
12. Yeah!/Usher feat. Ludacris & Lil’ John #1 (12 weeks) US/UK/Australia/Canada
13. Gold Digger/Kanye West feat Jamie Foxx #1 (10 weeks) US/Australia #2 UK/Canada
14. All For You/Janet Jackson #1 (7 weeks) US/Canada #3 UK #5 Australia
15. Toxic/Britney Spears #1 UK/Australia/Canada/US Dance #9 UK POP
16. Fallin’/Alicia Keys #1 (5 weeks) US #3 UK #7Australia
17. Single Ladies/Beyonce #1 (4 weeks) US/UK #2 Canada #5 Australia
18. Boom Boom Pow #1 (12 weeks) US/UK/Australia/Canada
19. Hot In Herre/Nelly #1 (6 weeks) US/Canada #3 Australia #4 UK
20. Poker Face/Lady Gaga #1 US/UK/Australia/Canada
21. Hollaback Girl/Gwen Stefani #1 (4 weeks) US/Australia #8 UK #12 Canada
22. Hung Up/Madonna #1 UK/Australia/Canada/US Dance #7 US POP
23. Don’t Cha/Pussycat Dolls feat. Busta Rhymes #1 UK/Canada/Australia/US Dance #2 US POP
24. No One/Alicia Keys #1 (9 weeks) US #2 Canada #3 Australia #6 UK
25. Beautiful/Christina Aguilera #1 UK/Canada/Australia/US Dance #2 US POP
26. I’m Real/Jennifer Lopez feat. Ja Rule #1 (5 weeks) US #4 UK #6 Canada
27. Promiscuous/Nelly Furtado feat. Timbaland #1 (6 weeks) US/Canada #2 Australia #3 UK
28. Be Without You/Mary J. Blige #1 (16 weeks) US R&B #3 US POP
29. Baby Boy/Beyonce feat. Sean Paul #1 (9 weeks) US #2 UK #3 Australia
30. SOS/Rihanna #1 (3 weeks) US/Australia #2 UK/Canada
31. Lose Yourself/Eminem #1 (12 weeks) US/Australia/Canada/UK
32. I Kissed A Girl/Katy Perry #1 (7 weeks) US/UK/Australia/Canada
33. I Gotta Feeling/Black Eyed Peas #1 (14 weeks) US/UK/Canada/Australia
34. You’re Beautiful/James Blunt #1 US/UK/Canada #2 Australia
35. Chasing Pavements/Adele #2 UK #21 US #28 Canada
36. Just Like A Pill/Pink #1 UK #2 Australia #4 Canada #8 US
37. If I Ain’t Got You/Alicia Keys #1 (6 weeks) US R&B #4 US POP #18 UK
38. Ain’t It Funny(remix)/Jennifer Lopez feat. Ja Rule & Caddillac Tah #1 (6 weeks) US #4 UK #9 Australia #12 Canada
39. U Remind Me/Usher #1 (4 weeks) US #3 UK #4 Australia
40. Womanizer/Britney Spears #1 US/Canada #3 UK #5 Australia
41. Work It/Missy Elliot #1 US R&B #2 US POP #6 UK/Australia
42. Low/Flo Rida feat. T-Pain #1 (10 weeks) US/Australia/Canada #2 UK
43. Touch My Body/Mariah Carey #1 (2 weeks) US #2 Canada #5 UK #17 Australia
44. I’m Yours/Jason Mraz #1 (16 weeks) US AC/UK #3 Australia/Canada #6 US POP
45. Hips Don’t Lie/Shakira Feat. Wyclef Jean #1 (4 weeks) US/UK/Australia #2 Canada
46. Don’t Stop The Music/Rihanna #1 Australia/US Dance #2 Canada #3 US POP #4 UK
47. Say My Name/Destiny’s Child #1 (3 weeks) US/Australia #2 Canada #3 UK
48. Irreplaceable/Beyonce #1 (10 weeks) US/Australia #4 UK
49. Crazy/Gnarls Barkley #1 (9 weeks) UK/Canada #2 US/Australia
50. Makes Me Wonder/Maroon 5 #1 (3 weeks) US/Canada #2 UK #6 Australia
51. Milkshake/Kelis #1 US Dance #2 Australia/UK #3 US POP
52. Buttons/Pussycat Dolls feat. Snoop Dogg #1 US Dance #2 Australia #3 UK/US POP
53. Apologize/Timbaland feat. One Republic #1 Australia/Canada #2 US #3 UK
54. Family Affair/Mary J. Blige #1 (6 weeks) US #8 Australia/UK
55. Get Ur Freak On/Missy Elliot #3 US R&B #4 UK #7 US POP
56. Doesn’t Really Matter/Janet Jackson #1 (3 weeks) US #5 UK #6 Canada #28 Australia
57. All I Have/Jennifer Lopez feat. LL Cool J #1 (4 weeks) US #2 UK/Australia #6 Canada
58. On A Night Like This/Kylie Minogue #1 Australia #2 UK
59. Can’t Touch It/Ricki-Lee #2 Australia
60. Glamorous/Fergie feat. Ludacris #1 (2 weeks) US #2 Australia #6 UK #12 Canada
61. Broken Strings/James Morrison feat. Nelly Furtado #1 Germany #2 UK #41 Canada
62. The Sweet Escape/Gwen Stefani feat. Akon #2 US/UK/Australia/Canada
63. Lose My Breath/Destiny’s Child #2 UK #3 US/Australia
64. Hey Ya!/Outkast #1 (9 weeks) US/Australia/Canada #3 UK
65. Get Busy/Sean Paul #1 (3 weeks) US #4 UK/Australia
66. In Da Club/50 Cent #1 (9 weeks) US/Australia/Canada #3 UK
67. Dance Wiv Me/Dizzee Rascal feat. Calvin Harris #1 (4 weeks) UK #13 Australia
68. I Don’t Feel Like Dancin’/Scissor Sisters #1 (4 weeks) UK/Australia #2 US Dance Airplay
69. Let Me Blow Your Mind/Eve feat. Gwen Stefani #2 US #4 UK/Australia
70. Underneath It All/No Doubt feat. Lady Saw #3 US #18 UK #28 Australia #35 Canada
71. Love Story/Taylor Swift #1 US Country/Australia #2 UK #4 US POP/Canada
72. U + Ur Hand/Pink #5 Australia #9 US #10 UK #31 Canada
73. Again/Lenny Kravitz #4 US #19 UK #30 Australia
74. Cry Me A River/Justin Timberlake #2 UK/Australia #3 US
75. Get Right/Jennifer Lopez #1 UK/US Dance #3 Australia/Canada #12 US POP
76. Bootylicious/Destiny’s Child #1 US #2 UK #4 Canada/Australia
77. Come On Over Baby (All I Want Is You)/Christina Aguilera #1 (3 weeks) US/Canada #3 Australia #8 UK
78. My Immortal/Evanescence #1 Canada #7 UK/US #11 Australia
79. Bad Day/Daniel Powter #1 (4 weeks) US #2 UK #3 Australia #7 Canada
80. Breathe/Faith Hill #1 US Country #2 US POP
81. Don’t Tell Me/Madonna #1 Canada/US Dance #4 US/UK #7 Australia
82. My Life Would Suck Without You/Kelly Clarkson #1 (2 weeks) US/UK/Canada #4 Australia
83. Independent Women (part 1)/Destiny’s Child #1 (11 weeks) US/UK/Canada #3 Australia
84. Black & Gold/Sam Sparro #2 UK #4 Australia #8 US Dance Airplay
85. How Many Licks?/Lil’ Kim feat. Sisqo #11 US Rap #36 US R&B #75 US POP
86. Try Again/Aaliyah #1 US #5 UK/Germany #8 Australia
87. The Way You Move/Outkast feat. Sleepy Brown #1 US #7 UK/Australia
88. Always On Time/Ja Rule feat. Ashanti #1 (2 weeks) US #2 Canada #3 Australia #6 UK
89. Shake It Off/Mariah Carey #2 US #6 Australia #9 UK/b-side of Get Your Number
90. Dilemma/Nelly feat. Kelly Rowland #1 (7 weeks) US/UK/Australia/Canada
91. Thank You/Dido #1 US AC/Canada #3 UK/US POP
92. Mr. Brightside/The Killers #10 UK/US
93. Girlfriend/Avril Lavigne #1 US/Canada/Australia #2 UK
94. Goodies/Ciara #1 (7 weeks) US/UK/Canada #19 Australia
95. I Knew I Loved You/Savage Garden #1 (4 weeks) US/Canada #4 Australia # 10 UK
96. Hero/Enrique Iglesias #1 US Latin/UK/Australia #3 US POP
97. Unwritten/Natasha Bedingfield #1 US Dance/AC #4 Canada #5 US POP #6 UK
98. Before He Cheats/Carrie Underwood #1 (5 weeks) US Country #4 Canada #8 US POP
99. Mercy/Duffy #1 (5 weeks) UK #11 Canada # 26 Australia #27 US
100. Foolish/Ashanti #1 (10 weeks) US #4 UK #6 Australia
Sunday, November 29, 2009
A Jason State of Mind
It’s been a rough week. A few days ago I tripped just walking on the street & fell down & bloodied up my knee & my hand. (No I was not inebriated, which makes it even sadder that I was this clumsy) I pulled something in my arm working out yesterday. I got upset with someone who I don’t like to be upset with. Most importantly, one of my best friends passed away.
I got a call last Monday morning from my friend’s cousin telling me he passed away the night before in the hospital. As I stood there in shock outside of St. Pat’s a wave of emotions overflowed & I could not hold back the tears. I tried to hold it together at work but in the end I had to leave. I went home & cleaned & did laundry & did anything to not think. I’ve gone through all the emotions & it seemed like everyday I felt a different way. Today I have finally decided that I need to get the crazy out of me & write.
Eight years ago I met a guy named Jason at Pop Rocks. It was one of my favorite places to go back then. Nothing but pop music played & I spent many a Thursday night there. I was busy doing a breakdown to one of my jams at the time when this guy was trying to get my attention. To no avail he started chatting with my friend Krizia & asked her about me. He would always go on to tell people that I didn’t pay him any mind when he tried to hit on me. But once I did I was smitten. It was hard not to notice him. He was beautiful & all the boys loved him. He had an energy about him & if I had a dollar for every friend I’ve had in the years that had a crush on him I would have a LOT of money. He was my first real boyfriend here in the city. It’s funny to look back at the pics of us. Nights at the Roxy, him wearing glitter, me with my natural hair color. Even when we ended our relationship it was on good terms. He would become one of my best friends that I have had while living here in NY. My friends here in NY have been my family & losing him has been like losing a little piece of my heart that I can not get back.
It’s weird to think I won’t hear his voice again. I found myself scrolling through texts just so I could read them. He was loved by so many people & he made an impact on so many lives. Reading the posts on his facebook page was hard as well as all the pics that were posted. I’ve done my best to think about all the good times & not be angry that I won’t have any more of these. We did a lot of growing up together. When I went through my tumor he was one of the many that supported me & was there when I needed him for anything. But, that’s just the kind of guy he was. He was a wonderful dancer. He was an awesome cook. He was an extremely talented architect. He loved his dog Gem more than anything. He was a generous soul. He was so many things.
For the first few nights I couldn’t sleep well. Dream after dream would occur. One of them was so vivid & it felt so real. We were upstairs at the Roxy. We were with all of our mutual friends. We were young. Dancing & having a good time & no care in the world. The dj was playing Love Affair by Kylie which happened to be our favorite song then. As I looked around seeing all my friends I noticed someone was missing. ”Where’s Jason?” I asked over & over & then it was like all of a sudden I realized & woke up.
Now that I’ve had some time to process everything that dream makes a little more sense to me. It marked a time in my mind that I will always cherish. So that is how I want to think about him. He’s somewhere dancing & forever youthful & nothing can harm him. He’s just waiting for us to get there.
Here in the moment I belong
In a waking dream
The night is young
But isn’t long
If you know what I mean
Oh it’s beautiful
The thought of what might be
Close your eyes so you can see
I am only here for a little while
Would you like to take me out tonight
Maybe we could talk for a little while, baby
Now we’ve only just begun
We’re running out of time
I don’t want to think about the sun
No not tonight
Oh it’s wonderful you being here with me
Close your eyes so you can see
I am only here for a little while
Would you like to take me out tonight
Maybe we could talk for a little while, baby
Don’t hold back it’s time for a love affair
Take my hand lead me to anywhere
Maybe there’s something in the air, baby
Together here, Together now
In the moment that we met
Remember here remember now
It’s too easy to forget
I got a call last Monday morning from my friend’s cousin telling me he passed away the night before in the hospital. As I stood there in shock outside of St. Pat’s a wave of emotions overflowed & I could not hold back the tears. I tried to hold it together at work but in the end I had to leave. I went home & cleaned & did laundry & did anything to not think. I’ve gone through all the emotions & it seemed like everyday I felt a different way. Today I have finally decided that I need to get the crazy out of me & write.
Eight years ago I met a guy named Jason at Pop Rocks. It was one of my favorite places to go back then. Nothing but pop music played & I spent many a Thursday night there. I was busy doing a breakdown to one of my jams at the time when this guy was trying to get my attention. To no avail he started chatting with my friend Krizia & asked her about me. He would always go on to tell people that I didn’t pay him any mind when he tried to hit on me. But once I did I was smitten. It was hard not to notice him. He was beautiful & all the boys loved him. He had an energy about him & if I had a dollar for every friend I’ve had in the years that had a crush on him I would have a LOT of money. He was my first real boyfriend here in the city. It’s funny to look back at the pics of us. Nights at the Roxy, him wearing glitter, me with my natural hair color. Even when we ended our relationship it was on good terms. He would become one of my best friends that I have had while living here in NY. My friends here in NY have been my family & losing him has been like losing a little piece of my heart that I can not get back.
It’s weird to think I won’t hear his voice again. I found myself scrolling through texts just so I could read them. He was loved by so many people & he made an impact on so many lives. Reading the posts on his facebook page was hard as well as all the pics that were posted. I’ve done my best to think about all the good times & not be angry that I won’t have any more of these. We did a lot of growing up together. When I went through my tumor he was one of the many that supported me & was there when I needed him for anything. But, that’s just the kind of guy he was. He was a wonderful dancer. He was an awesome cook. He was an extremely talented architect. He loved his dog Gem more than anything. He was a generous soul. He was so many things.
For the first few nights I couldn’t sleep well. Dream after dream would occur. One of them was so vivid & it felt so real. We were upstairs at the Roxy. We were with all of our mutual friends. We were young. Dancing & having a good time & no care in the world. The dj was playing Love Affair by Kylie which happened to be our favorite song then. As I looked around seeing all my friends I noticed someone was missing. ”Where’s Jason?” I asked over & over & then it was like all of a sudden I realized & woke up.
Now that I’ve had some time to process everything that dream makes a little more sense to me. It marked a time in my mind that I will always cherish. So that is how I want to think about him. He’s somewhere dancing & forever youthful & nothing can harm him. He’s just waiting for us to get there.
Here in the moment I belong
In a waking dream
The night is young
But isn’t long
If you know what I mean
Oh it’s beautiful
The thought of what might be
Close your eyes so you can see
I am only here for a little while
Would you like to take me out tonight
Maybe we could talk for a little while, baby
Now we’ve only just begun
We’re running out of time
I don’t want to think about the sun
No not tonight
Oh it’s wonderful you being here with me
Close your eyes so you can see
I am only here for a little while
Would you like to take me out tonight
Maybe we could talk for a little while, baby
Don’t hold back it’s time for a love affair
Take my hand lead me to anywhere
Maybe there’s something in the air, baby
Together here, Together now
In the moment that we met
Remember here remember now
It’s too easy to forget
Monday, November 16, 2009
For You, For Me... A Funhouse
Somewhere along the line, October came & slapped me in the face with excitement. I realize this blog was due weeks ago but I’m just now trying to catch up so go back with me a little bit if you may. I got to see Pink at MSG which was awesome & that word could definitely be used for some of the concert goers there. There was a ride range of people from your str8’s to your gays to your lesbians to women who looked they had either been on a Rock of Love show or had at least auditioned for it. At one point a girl behind me was yelling out, “I freaking love you Alicia!” Another goes, “Who is Alicia?” She responded, “That’s Pink’s real name bitch!” Totally saying it in a Rock of Love I had too many tequila shots kind of way. Amazing, and the same can be said for Pink. Baddest str8 lesbian pop singer around. My highlights were ‘Family Portrait’ done with just the piano & I loved the acoustic section with ‘I Don’t Believe You’ & some other tracks. She did a few too many covers which left me wondering why she didn’t do some other of her older songs but I still had an amazing time. Her cover of The Divinyls ‘I Touch Myself’ was uber sexed up & I loved it. All in all a really fucking awesome show! Sorry, my inner lesbian came out.
No lesbians could be seen at my next show a week after. It was gays galore at Kylie Minogue’s show at the Hammerstein Ballroom. I had been looking forward to her show for months because this was her first time touring in the states ever. I had met her at a Virgin megastore signing during the release of Fever & as I think I have stated many times before I’ve been a fan since she came out with ‘The Loco-Motion’ in 88. For me, the show was absolutely great. I had made my way to the front with my friend Danny. Somehow everyone else got really far away from me, but when it comes to getting close to a diva I tend to lose all my peeps. Musically, the show was brilliant. She took portions from all her past shows (which I have on DVD) and put them into this show. I can also say this was the gayest show I’ve seen from any of my divas. There were boys dancing with boys & girls dancing with girls while Kylie sang her heart out. There was even this whole locker room scene with the guys that got us all hot & bothered. Highlights (besides these) were ‘The Loco-Motion’, ‘Confide In Me’, “The One’….oh hell I loved the whole damn show. I look forward to her coming back to perform again. She apparently was at a club I went to on Halloween with Fergie but I did not see her. Then again, I was too drunk for my own good so who the hell knows.
Ahhhhh Halloween. It wasn’t as great as the year before but don’t think I didn’t have a good time. We started out at my friend Dana’s house party. So many of my friends were dressed as ladies it was hilarious. Brad as a Hooters girl, Rob as crazy Britney with pink wig was tons of fun. I was incredibly proud of Scott running around in a cape & just his undies looking like a devil. Vadim was dressed as well an even crazier version of himself than normal. For once I actually had on more clothes than them. I know, this is shocking. It was to me too. I was going for this whole 80’s sports work out but got everything from that to ‘Are you an 80’s porn star?’ to are you trying to be a certain friend that shall remain nameless. By the end of the night though the wig had come off, shirt barely tucked in my tiny shorts with jock strap peeking through. Where are these pics you ask? Haha I managed to escape those for once.
We had a Halloween soiree at work as well a few days later & the theme was to be a rock star…. living or dead. My co-worker Sophia came as Rick James, complete with ho’s(back up singers) & she looked amazing! We had Wayne & Garth, Tupac & Biggie Smalls, Pat Benatar, The Blue Brothers, Theo as this ultimate rock star… there were so many good ones. I had no idea what I would be but then at the last minute used the wig to my advantage & came up with the idea of a Beach Boy with shorts & tank top. Turns out I wasn’t the only one with that thought which was cool. I asked him if we were getting the band back together. And speaking of band, we had one performing for us & they were also getting people to sing. My co-worker Morgan rocked out some Pearl Jam that I was not ready for. Absolutely fricking awesome. Craig worked it out but I was expecting him to be brilliant anyway since he is also a musician. I sang ‘Wonderwall’ by Oasis & I totally forgot what it was like to sing with a band. The hoots & hollers & yells definitely helped & next thing you know the dude told me I should sing some more. Well 4 more songs later it was like a mini Nick concert. Absolutely awesome & to even have one of the grouchiest people who works here come up & smile & say ‘You’re such a good singer!’ was a shock. Well after feeling like a rock star & way too many drinks I found myself at an after party one of the band members had told us about.
Now here is where things got scandalous. It should be said that I don’t act crazy at work unless it’s just a few of my crew & we have some drinks after work in an office on a random Friday. But, I was dancing with married ladies & dipping them across the floor. Before, some of you think this is going somewhere don’t! The husband was nearby totally digging it. If anything they probably had an even better time once they got home alone lol. At one point I may have rolled across a floor & broke out into a dance breakdown. Maybe. My shirt may have come off at some point. Ok, so it did. Luckily there are no pics of this but a certain Creative Director tells me he took a video of it. I haven’t seen it but maybe I should scour youtube for it hmmmm. Anyway, it was a blast that’s for sure. The next morning I was just sure I was going to be embarrassed to see everyone but one by one I was praised & people calling & saying, “Most of the time things with co-workers are lame & people are all shy & you just killed it.” What I killed I am not sure but I do love that I brought some excitement. The head of our production department now refers to me as a rock star & was like ‘I had NO idea you had that in you.’ But those that KNOW me know it was only a small part of how I normally get down. I told him, “It’s either go hard or don’t go at all.” It’s not like I live this way everyday of the week. The whole beginning of the week is spent work, gym, home, watch my shows on tv & then repeat. I rarely even go out for drinks unless it’s someone’s birthday. It just me being chill. But when I’m ready to get down, watch out. Because for you, for me…. I like to make it a FUNHOUSE.
No lesbians could be seen at my next show a week after. It was gays galore at Kylie Minogue’s show at the Hammerstein Ballroom. I had been looking forward to her show for months because this was her first time touring in the states ever. I had met her at a Virgin megastore signing during the release of Fever & as I think I have stated many times before I’ve been a fan since she came out with ‘The Loco-Motion’ in 88. For me, the show was absolutely great. I had made my way to the front with my friend Danny. Somehow everyone else got really far away from me, but when it comes to getting close to a diva I tend to lose all my peeps. Musically, the show was brilliant. She took portions from all her past shows (which I have on DVD) and put them into this show. I can also say this was the gayest show I’ve seen from any of my divas. There were boys dancing with boys & girls dancing with girls while Kylie sang her heart out. There was even this whole locker room scene with the guys that got us all hot & bothered. Highlights (besides these) were ‘The Loco-Motion’, ‘Confide In Me’, “The One’….oh hell I loved the whole damn show. I look forward to her coming back to perform again. She apparently was at a club I went to on Halloween with Fergie but I did not see her. Then again, I was too drunk for my own good so who the hell knows.
Ahhhhh Halloween. It wasn’t as great as the year before but don’t think I didn’t have a good time. We started out at my friend Dana’s house party. So many of my friends were dressed as ladies it was hilarious. Brad as a Hooters girl, Rob as crazy Britney with pink wig was tons of fun. I was incredibly proud of Scott running around in a cape & just his undies looking like a devil. Vadim was dressed as well an even crazier version of himself than normal. For once I actually had on more clothes than them. I know, this is shocking. It was to me too. I was going for this whole 80’s sports work out but got everything from that to ‘Are you an 80’s porn star?’ to are you trying to be a certain friend that shall remain nameless. By the end of the night though the wig had come off, shirt barely tucked in my tiny shorts with jock strap peeking through. Where are these pics you ask? Haha I managed to escape those for once.
We had a Halloween soiree at work as well a few days later & the theme was to be a rock star…. living or dead. My co-worker Sophia came as Rick James, complete with ho’s(back up singers) & she looked amazing! We had Wayne & Garth, Tupac & Biggie Smalls, Pat Benatar, The Blue Brothers, Theo as this ultimate rock star… there were so many good ones. I had no idea what I would be but then at the last minute used the wig to my advantage & came up with the idea of a Beach Boy with shorts & tank top. Turns out I wasn’t the only one with that thought which was cool. I asked him if we were getting the band back together. And speaking of band, we had one performing for us & they were also getting people to sing. My co-worker Morgan rocked out some Pearl Jam that I was not ready for. Absolutely fricking awesome. Craig worked it out but I was expecting him to be brilliant anyway since he is also a musician. I sang ‘Wonderwall’ by Oasis & I totally forgot what it was like to sing with a band. The hoots & hollers & yells definitely helped & next thing you know the dude told me I should sing some more. Well 4 more songs later it was like a mini Nick concert. Absolutely awesome & to even have one of the grouchiest people who works here come up & smile & say ‘You’re such a good singer!’ was a shock. Well after feeling like a rock star & way too many drinks I found myself at an after party one of the band members had told us about.
Now here is where things got scandalous. It should be said that I don’t act crazy at work unless it’s just a few of my crew & we have some drinks after work in an office on a random Friday. But, I was dancing with married ladies & dipping them across the floor. Before, some of you think this is going somewhere don’t! The husband was nearby totally digging it. If anything they probably had an even better time once they got home alone lol. At one point I may have rolled across a floor & broke out into a dance breakdown. Maybe. My shirt may have come off at some point. Ok, so it did. Luckily there are no pics of this but a certain Creative Director tells me he took a video of it. I haven’t seen it but maybe I should scour youtube for it hmmmm. Anyway, it was a blast that’s for sure. The next morning I was just sure I was going to be embarrassed to see everyone but one by one I was praised & people calling & saying, “Most of the time things with co-workers are lame & people are all shy & you just killed it.” What I killed I am not sure but I do love that I brought some excitement. The head of our production department now refers to me as a rock star & was like ‘I had NO idea you had that in you.’ But those that KNOW me know it was only a small part of how I normally get down. I told him, “It’s either go hard or don’t go at all.” It’s not like I live this way everyday of the week. The whole beginning of the week is spent work, gym, home, watch my shows on tv & then repeat. I rarely even go out for drinks unless it’s someone’s birthday. It just me being chill. But when I’m ready to get down, watch out. Because for you, for me…. I like to make it a FUNHOUSE.
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