I Said You Wanna Be Startin’ Somethin’
You Got To Be Startin’ Somethin’
I Said You Wanna Be Startin’ Somethin’
You Got To Be Startin’ Somethin’
It’s Too High To Get Over (Yeah, Yeah)
Too Low To Get Under (Yeah, Yeah)
You’re Stuck In The Middle (Yeah, Yeah)
And The Pain Is Thunder (Yeah, Yeah)
When I last left off I was about to discuss my trip to North Carolina. It’s a good thing I’ve waited until now to post about it. At least some of the acid saltiness I feel for it has washed off & for the most part I’m thankful for the good times I had while there. Not completely because you know I can hold a grudge like no ones business. If you ask if I’m heading back down there any time soon, my magic 8 ball says ‘Hell to the no!’
Whenever there is option for good or bad news first I always opt for the bad news first. It’s like go ahead & hit me with it so I can deal with it. With that being said, I arrived there on the 1st of the month & my mother & younger sister picked me up at the airport. I haven’t seen them since Nov. 2007 when they came up for Thanksgiving. I was still dealing with the after effects of the brian tumor. A lot of things were different then. For me that is. My mom on the other hand is still just as bi-polar as ever. It may actually have gotten worse. Now this is not an actual diagnose unless you would like to call me Dr. Padron. Ever since I was a kid I can always remember not knowing how she would react to anything said. There are times you can say a joke & she would laugh her ass off to it but then there are times that you say the same thing & she will fly off the handle like a bat out of hell. All day long, she was semi fine. I thought she would get excited for this cd of music I put together for her. It was music that I knew she didn’t have & it was a bunch of songs that are hard to find now. Being the music man that I am, I found them online & spent a good part of my work day doing this for her. This excited her & she sang along for the rest of the car trip. Yay! Nick is a good son. Although for the next few hrs I kept hearing about how the dog is the only thing that loves her. It loves her more than her own kids. Ummmm, thanks. Before I had come I had been trying to figure out where I would stay because I do not stay with her whenever I go down. It’s a lot of reasons but mainly there is no room in the house & I don’t feel comfortable there anyway. Many years ago I would stay at my grandparents. Since my grandmother died & my grandfather is now on his second wife since she died I don’t really care to stay there as well. Either way, I always prefer to stay with friends. But, I mainly try not to be an inconvenience to any one. Is that often for most folks to feel that way?
All that being said my mom told me that I could stay with her male friend at his place. Mind you, I haven’t properly met this guy so I thought it was odd. Apparently he’s head over heels for my mom & when I had the chance to meet him I thought he was a really nice guy. Too bad my mom is basically using him for her own convenience. He would go to speak & she would interrupt him. In my head I thought ‘Nice guy, but poor schmuck.’ Our next plan was to meet up with my sister & her boyfriend & we would go out for her bday dinner. My mom had also said that the next day we would all go to Carowinds. I hadn’t been there since the 90’s & was actually really looking forward to it. For those that don’t know, it’s like a 6 Flags. My sister Andrea said that she wanted to go to this one restaurant & my mom was annoyed because she didn’t know it, it didn’t have a buffet. She also wanted to be able to take the dog. Ummm, how many places can you go that you can bring a fricking dog? Then my other sister Anna made the point that it WAS Andrea’s bday so how about we go where she wanted to go. Not saying, but seriously just saying. As soon as we got there my mom seemed annoyed & not sure if she would like the food blah blah blah & that it would be too expensive. She then asked who she would have to pay for as she looked at me & Andrea’s bf. It seemed kind of funny to me because most parents pay for their whole children when they come to visit for a dinner. Richard (Andrea’s bf) said he would pay for his & I said I could pay for mine. Then she told me no, I’ll pay for you. I still hear about how much money I cost since I was a kid so knowing that I ordered the cheapest thing on the menu. A $6 blackened chicken salad. It was ok, a lil spicy but I like spicy. When the bill came once again my mom made a comment about how she only had $50 on her so she hoped it wasn’t more than that. I did the math in my head of how much everyone (excluding Richard’s) would be & it added up to maybe $35. Still she acted annoyed. So trying to joke & make light of it I said, “Hey maybe I can go throw up the salad & we can take it off the menu.” Now if I said this to any of my friends or any one else I know this could be funny. Vadim would have said something like, “Why are you eating anyway, it’s not Tuesday.” Jaime would say, “Bitch, you don’t eat anyway.” Comments all in good fun. Not for my mom & not on this day. She waited until we were outside in the parking lot to thoroughly throw a fit about how it wasn’t funny & that I was an awful son. That I don’t take time come down. Ummm hello, I’m here right now! I took the time off of work just to come down. I had been trying to contact everyone for a month so I could coordinate plans. No one would call me back. She started going on about how I didn’t send a card for Mother’s Day & I didn’t call. When in fact I had tried to call but being that she didn’t want to receive text messages she gave up her voicemail. So on that day when I had called I couldn’t reach her all day. Still going off she told me to get in the car & I said you’re crazy angry right now & I’m not getting in the car with a crazy person. She looked at my sister & said he should have just died when he had the tumor. And with that I checked out of the argument. I looked at Andrea & told her to take me anywhere but there & we would try to pick up my bag from that guys house & I would figure out somewhere to stay. I had not even been in NC for 24 hrs. I may never look at a blackened chicken salad the same.
The next few days were good. I hung out with my sister & her bf. He’s a really nice guy & I’m glad that she has someone that loves her so much. I also got to hang with my friend Lisa, from high school. Her parents had this bbq right before the fourth of July & we all had a good time. I got to see her with a buzz which I had never seen before. I also reconnected with some girls from high school that I literally hadn’t seen in a decade. I found myself at one point at a softball game which was kind of funny. I don’t do anything with balls unless they come in a set & when one came flying at me I politely moved to the left. All the lesbians looked at me & laughed. I also was like what is in the water here & where did all the lesbians come from & where are the gays? I was out of my comfort zone but to be honest they were straight up cool. No pun intended about the straight part ladies. I got to hang out with another really good friend of mine since 7th grade. It’s always nice to know that even though life changes & takes you to new places & new lives, you can still meet up & chat like no time has passed.
After some happy goodbyes, I left to meet Shuley & we were on our way to Wilmington. As soon as we got there we barely took time to drop off bags because we were gonna head to a pool party at my friend Blair’s. We had an awesome time & it was a wonderful way to be welcomed back to Wilmington. I also enjoyed that I was the youngest gay there, that hasn’t happened in a long ass time. And ohhhh how I do enjoy the southern gays. Maybe I’ve become a tad bit jaded about certain things & I need to sprinkle it with some of my former southern charm. This was to be the last time I saw a lil bit of sun because the rest of my time there the sun said goodbye to Wilmington. That sucked because after having like 22 days of rain in June the weather was fabulous for the 4th. This is when my jaded self says, “Of course I would bring the rain with me.” But, it was still good to see all of my Wilmington boys & hang out with them. I’m always reminded of that when you can’t have a family per se you can make your own family with your friends. For everyone who made the time for me I can’t say thanks enough. I brought a little bit of NY scandal out & about on that Saturday night there. I thought it was funny because to me I was being calm. Seriously. Hee hee. I told everyone that they could come visit me any time. Mainly because I don’t see myself going down there any time in the distant future.
So that’s it in a nutshell & regarding the whole mom issue all I can say is it is what it is. In all honesty I did not go down there to deal with razor sharp things said to me. I’m not a child anymore & that kind of thing doesn’t fly with me. I had just wanted to celebrate my sister turning 21. I remember mine. I was just starting to come out & felt like there was so much more in life I needed to discover & learn. I just wanted to be there for hers. Needless to say there was no trip to Carowinds. Maybe this semi-jaded New Yorker will not say no completely. Maybe someday, but NOT any time soon. This Friday is yet another b-day. I swear they come way too fast for my liking. This year I’m taking Nickakah to Fire Island. I feel like I’ve done everything there is to be done in NY so I need something fresh. I had a warm up this past weekend. It was an awesome time & I’m completely tan. I can’t wait for the weekend. My bdays are always fun & good times & I can’t wait to share the stories with you. Until then……..
Help Me Sing It, Ma Ma Se,
Ma Ma Sa, Ma Ma Coo Sa
Ma Ma Se, Ma Ma Sa, Ma Ma Coo Sa
Monday, July 27, 2009
Thursday, July 9, 2009
Off The Wall
When the world is on your shoulder
Gotta straighten up your act and boogie down
If you cant hang with the feeling
Then there aint no room for you this part of town
cause we’re the party people night and day
Livin crazy thats the only way
Hello folks, I’m highly late for this blog but I have been busy traveling. But what I wanted to blog about was the last week of June…. Pride week here in NYC. We officially kicked it off by going to the 40th Anniversary of Stonewall at Stonewall in the Village. Some of my boys had never even been there. (It’s historical because that’s where a butch lesbian, a drag queen & some gays decided to rise up against the police who kept trying to shut their party down. I say it with a hint of fun but in all honesty if it wasn’t for them getting the ball rolling we wouldn’t be where we are today. So kudos to the older generation, let’s keep on keeping on! Now back to the deets.) Vodka was flowing & I was having good convo’s with old & new friends. Ok so maybe I should be honest & add I saw some old lovers & some new ones hee hee. Anyway, it was a good time when all of a sudden the vodka ran out. It was like we were being raided again because the gays cleared out quicker than you can say ‘Last Call’. That’s when my crew & I decided to take it down the street to Pieces for a lil Tuesday Night Karaoke. I was tagged left & right on Facebook by John during my performance of Poker Face. I even had some backup dancing by my girl Vicky. At one point the drag queen decided she would join in & then she decided it would be a good idea to try to pull up Vicky’s skirt. Vicky wasn’t having it & tried to stop her & next thing you know a drag queen fell to the ground almost taking Vicky with her. In true Beyonce fashion (during a TRL performance of Lose My Breath, Michelle fell while walking in with the other girls & without skipping a beat Beyonce kept walking) I just kept working it with my leg propped on a counter giving it to the fans. The pics are hilarious & I like that the caption is Nicky Boom Box’s booty can take a drag queen down. Even Vadim got in on the karaoke action, unwillingly mind you. Ej had put his name on a ticket so he was surprised when his name was called. Good thing he was drunk or he may have not gotten up to give us his amazing vocal skills on All I Want For Xmas is You. His vocal stylings aren’t new to me at all. There’s been plenty a voicemail left for me of him singing Pray by M.C. Hammer & any other ‘new’ song he may have just discovered. Later, I did a very drunk rendition of Express Yourself & my shirt may have been taken off by someone…. but, luckily there were no pictures taken of that. Besides, I still had plenty of Pride week to pose for such shenanigans.
That Wednesday I ended up not making it to the gym at all because I was at work until 9 something. WHAT?! No, no don’t worry babies. I had officially stopped working around 4ish because our agency was having a lil drink fest going on. Tasia, Marcus, Anabel (mi amor) & were drinking & talking about tons of people in our own little private room. What was discussed? I shall not say. Mainly because it’s been too long & I can’t remember & partly because it’s hidden in my body of evidence. On Thursday night I got together with my Jude to welcome in some of his friends visiting from Amsterdam. Damn can those boys get down! We hit up Vlada & danced our asses off at Splash. They all could dance very well so I had to step up my game. It was like the intro’s on So You Think You Can Dance! Luckily I had off the next day because I ended up sleeping in until around noon. I spent the good part of the afternoon doing my laundry. I always say I’m not gonna wait until I have no clean manties or socks but this time I literally had nothing! By evenings end I was ready for the Madonnnathon at Pyramid.
Every year around Pride they have a Madonnathon where they play all her music for about 4 hrs. Scott, Billy & I got there for the very beginning. In true fashion Vadim showed up late even though he always harks on us about not being late. I was wearing my ‘Music’ shirt which I ket getting compliments on & I saw other people dressed in their favorite Madonna garb. It wasn’t as fun as previous events but the energy was still up & we got to dance to all of our favorite jams. At 1 am it was over & it promptly went from a Madonnathon to a Michael Jacksonathon. I hadn’t ever heard so much MJ ever. It was good times & once again I found myself getting home really late.
On Saturday I had planned to do certain things & in the end I only accomplished a few. The pier & the gym were checked but the others were tossed to the wind when some impromptu party invites came up. We were all on a roof top for someone’s bday & I was sipping on some tastey vodka flavored mojito’s. All was going lovely until the skies decided to grey & the rain came down. Scott screamed out, “God hates the gays!” as we all shuttered down to the apartment for shelter. It proved to only last a few minutes & we went back on the roof. After a few minutes we looked in the sky & saw this massive rainbow & I said, “Look! God does love the gays.” Quicker than you could sing Heartbreaker I was posing like Mimi on a chair sipping on vodka. Think that’s the gayest thing ever? Wait, because I’m not finished.
After the party… Scott, Melissa & I ended up at Victor’s rooftop for his party as well. Festiveness was flowing & at one point I was playing with a balloon singing 99 Red Balloons. I don’t know German so I had to sing the english version. Before I knew it, it was late & I was not gonna get a proper nap. So I decided to let my balloon go in the air & get myself home to nap. The plan was that I would nap & then meet everyone at Splash & then Chase would pick me up. From there we would go to Roseland to hear Peter spin. That WAS the plan. I went home & somehow slept through an alarm & phone calls. I blame it on the alcohol. At 3 am I randomly woke up & was shocked I had missed all of it. I quickly showered & got myself to Roseland. It was funny to walk in all clean & see tons of already sweaty men getting their dance on. It was probably the shortest time I had my shirt on since I took it off as soon as I walked in. I found Chase, Stephanie & the rest of the crew & proceeded to go to Work! The music was banging & I heard tons of classics & tons of new stuff. By 9 am I decided I had danced enough & made my way home. Not the classiest look walking home but at least I wasn’t doing the walk of shame & luckily I live only a few blocks away. I managed to sleep maybe an hr or so but kept waking up worried that I may sleep through the parade. Instead of risking it I eventually got up & showered & got ready to meet all the boys on 5th Ave. I had planned my outfit of a mesh tank & short shorts, dressed in blue. I had gotten some looks from some folk but I wore it well. By the time I got to 5th, I had a latina girl tell me that my chest was hot, a lip stick lesbian telling me she lived for anything see through & some twinks eyeing me up & down. Now this is what Pride is all about. Being proud of who you are & just doing you.
The parade is one of the most festive parades there are here in the city, normally. It was fun but we did notice how there seem to be less floats & not enough hot guys on the floats. Vadim blamed it on the economy. Where have all the good floats gone & where are all the hot guys? I couldn’t be bothered with such questions because we ended up at another apartment party on 5th ave. I found myself no longer tired once the liquor was flowing. Nicole cracked me up because she’s not a drinker but she had decided to imbibe a lil for this special occasion. Giggly & dancing around, that’s one of my favorite kinds of drunks! We all stayed at the party for a lil while, long enough for me to get invited for a threesome with this couple I had just met. Very cute but that’s too early to commit to some dick, in this case 2. (I’m not opposed to another time though hee hee) We then made our way back to the parade & then decided to hit up yet another apartment party (That’s right, another one so keep up). John continued to take plenty of pics which are plastered all over Facebook & everyone continued to have a good time. Almost everyone. There was one certain Mr. Grumpy Pants but his mood did elevate once some of his peeps came. We continued to hang & make new friends & I met some incredibly hilarious people. I definitely hope to see them again soon.
Finally it was just down to Scott, Vadim & I. We ended up going to Porky’s & when they told us there was a cover we were left annoyed. We didn’t know how well it would be inside & we didn’t want to waste money on it if it sucked. While we were debating, Scott had a friend come & get him inside. Vadim & I saw a friend we knew with his friend. They were leaving & suggested that we take their bracelets. So we did & snuck past the bouncer. I got in fine, no problem. But, Vadim on the other hand was stopped by the girl in the front. He began to make up some lie about how she had let him out without the stamp she was asking for. Either she just didn’t care or was tired of his arguing, she let him in. I went to go to the bar to get a drink & I saw 3 twinks in their manties dancing on top of the bar. They had bottles in their hands & were serving out shots. One got me to hold my neck back & open my mouth. Normally, I wouldn’t do that but hey, they were twinks with liquor bottles. They gave to other patrons but I started to notice they just kept asking me to come over. Finally one told me that he recognized me from the parade. Oh snap! These were the twinks checking me out earlier. I ended up spending no money which is a wonderful thing. Vadim even took a page from Nick’s Lavatory Love Story book by disappearing with this random guy. Scott informed me that we should leave since I wasn’t gonna hook up with the twinks & we couldn’t find Vadim. I found it odd being that he had left his bag with me. Vadim would never do such a thing. But, 10 minutes later he had me convinced since we still couldn’t find him. So off we go to Posh with me holding onto his bag not realizing that we in had in fact left Vadim inside alone. Posh was ok & it was getting late. I had also made a new friend so I decided I would leave Scott to his own defenses. Turns out I shouldn’t have done this because some homophobe decided to try to fuck with Scott once he was alone eating pizza. Luckily, some guys came to Scott’s defense & all was well. But, had they not I fear that I would have had to deal with another gay bashing story & this time it would be hitting close to home since it was my friend. Why this seems to occur every year I’m not sure. I’ve never had that problem but seriously I was running around in next to nothing. Why homophobia has to rear it’s ugly head I do not get. Why do I have to end this fabulous blog with a downer? I’m not sure but I wanted to finish what I had started before I left for North Carolina. Little did I know just how much of a downer that was gonna become………….
TO BE CONTINUED
Gotta straighten up your act and boogie down
If you cant hang with the feeling
Then there aint no room for you this part of town
cause we’re the party people night and day
Livin crazy thats the only way
Hello folks, I’m highly late for this blog but I have been busy traveling. But what I wanted to blog about was the last week of June…. Pride week here in NYC. We officially kicked it off by going to the 40th Anniversary of Stonewall at Stonewall in the Village. Some of my boys had never even been there. (It’s historical because that’s where a butch lesbian, a drag queen & some gays decided to rise up against the police who kept trying to shut their party down. I say it with a hint of fun but in all honesty if it wasn’t for them getting the ball rolling we wouldn’t be where we are today. So kudos to the older generation, let’s keep on keeping on! Now back to the deets.) Vodka was flowing & I was having good convo’s with old & new friends. Ok so maybe I should be honest & add I saw some old lovers & some new ones hee hee. Anyway, it was a good time when all of a sudden the vodka ran out. It was like we were being raided again because the gays cleared out quicker than you can say ‘Last Call’. That’s when my crew & I decided to take it down the street to Pieces for a lil Tuesday Night Karaoke. I was tagged left & right on Facebook by John during my performance of Poker Face. I even had some backup dancing by my girl Vicky. At one point the drag queen decided she would join in & then she decided it would be a good idea to try to pull up Vicky’s skirt. Vicky wasn’t having it & tried to stop her & next thing you know a drag queen fell to the ground almost taking Vicky with her. In true Beyonce fashion (during a TRL performance of Lose My Breath, Michelle fell while walking in with the other girls & without skipping a beat Beyonce kept walking) I just kept working it with my leg propped on a counter giving it to the fans. The pics are hilarious & I like that the caption is Nicky Boom Box’s booty can take a drag queen down. Even Vadim got in on the karaoke action, unwillingly mind you. Ej had put his name on a ticket so he was surprised when his name was called. Good thing he was drunk or he may have not gotten up to give us his amazing vocal skills on All I Want For Xmas is You. His vocal stylings aren’t new to me at all. There’s been plenty a voicemail left for me of him singing Pray by M.C. Hammer & any other ‘new’ song he may have just discovered. Later, I did a very drunk rendition of Express Yourself & my shirt may have been taken off by someone…. but, luckily there were no pictures taken of that. Besides, I still had plenty of Pride week to pose for such shenanigans.
That Wednesday I ended up not making it to the gym at all because I was at work until 9 something. WHAT?! No, no don’t worry babies. I had officially stopped working around 4ish because our agency was having a lil drink fest going on. Tasia, Marcus, Anabel (mi amor) & were drinking & talking about tons of people in our own little private room. What was discussed? I shall not say. Mainly because it’s been too long & I can’t remember & partly because it’s hidden in my body of evidence. On Thursday night I got together with my Jude to welcome in some of his friends visiting from Amsterdam. Damn can those boys get down! We hit up Vlada & danced our asses off at Splash. They all could dance very well so I had to step up my game. It was like the intro’s on So You Think You Can Dance! Luckily I had off the next day because I ended up sleeping in until around noon. I spent the good part of the afternoon doing my laundry. I always say I’m not gonna wait until I have no clean manties or socks but this time I literally had nothing! By evenings end I was ready for the Madonnnathon at Pyramid.
Every year around Pride they have a Madonnathon where they play all her music for about 4 hrs. Scott, Billy & I got there for the very beginning. In true fashion Vadim showed up late even though he always harks on us about not being late. I was wearing my ‘Music’ shirt which I ket getting compliments on & I saw other people dressed in their favorite Madonna garb. It wasn’t as fun as previous events but the energy was still up & we got to dance to all of our favorite jams. At 1 am it was over & it promptly went from a Madonnathon to a Michael Jacksonathon. I hadn’t ever heard so much MJ ever. It was good times & once again I found myself getting home really late.
On Saturday I had planned to do certain things & in the end I only accomplished a few. The pier & the gym were checked but the others were tossed to the wind when some impromptu party invites came up. We were all on a roof top for someone’s bday & I was sipping on some tastey vodka flavored mojito’s. All was going lovely until the skies decided to grey & the rain came down. Scott screamed out, “God hates the gays!” as we all shuttered down to the apartment for shelter. It proved to only last a few minutes & we went back on the roof. After a few minutes we looked in the sky & saw this massive rainbow & I said, “Look! God does love the gays.” Quicker than you could sing Heartbreaker I was posing like Mimi on a chair sipping on vodka. Think that’s the gayest thing ever? Wait, because I’m not finished.
After the party… Scott, Melissa & I ended up at Victor’s rooftop for his party as well. Festiveness was flowing & at one point I was playing with a balloon singing 99 Red Balloons. I don’t know German so I had to sing the english version. Before I knew it, it was late & I was not gonna get a proper nap. So I decided to let my balloon go in the air & get myself home to nap. The plan was that I would nap & then meet everyone at Splash & then Chase would pick me up. From there we would go to Roseland to hear Peter spin. That WAS the plan. I went home & somehow slept through an alarm & phone calls. I blame it on the alcohol. At 3 am I randomly woke up & was shocked I had missed all of it. I quickly showered & got myself to Roseland. It was funny to walk in all clean & see tons of already sweaty men getting their dance on. It was probably the shortest time I had my shirt on since I took it off as soon as I walked in. I found Chase, Stephanie & the rest of the crew & proceeded to go to Work! The music was banging & I heard tons of classics & tons of new stuff. By 9 am I decided I had danced enough & made my way home. Not the classiest look walking home but at least I wasn’t doing the walk of shame & luckily I live only a few blocks away. I managed to sleep maybe an hr or so but kept waking up worried that I may sleep through the parade. Instead of risking it I eventually got up & showered & got ready to meet all the boys on 5th Ave. I had planned my outfit of a mesh tank & short shorts, dressed in blue. I had gotten some looks from some folk but I wore it well. By the time I got to 5th, I had a latina girl tell me that my chest was hot, a lip stick lesbian telling me she lived for anything see through & some twinks eyeing me up & down. Now this is what Pride is all about. Being proud of who you are & just doing you.
The parade is one of the most festive parades there are here in the city, normally. It was fun but we did notice how there seem to be less floats & not enough hot guys on the floats. Vadim blamed it on the economy. Where have all the good floats gone & where are all the hot guys? I couldn’t be bothered with such questions because we ended up at another apartment party on 5th ave. I found myself no longer tired once the liquor was flowing. Nicole cracked me up because she’s not a drinker but she had decided to imbibe a lil for this special occasion. Giggly & dancing around, that’s one of my favorite kinds of drunks! We all stayed at the party for a lil while, long enough for me to get invited for a threesome with this couple I had just met. Very cute but that’s too early to commit to some dick, in this case 2. (I’m not opposed to another time though hee hee) We then made our way back to the parade & then decided to hit up yet another apartment party (That’s right, another one so keep up). John continued to take plenty of pics which are plastered all over Facebook & everyone continued to have a good time. Almost everyone. There was one certain Mr. Grumpy Pants but his mood did elevate once some of his peeps came. We continued to hang & make new friends & I met some incredibly hilarious people. I definitely hope to see them again soon.
Finally it was just down to Scott, Vadim & I. We ended up going to Porky’s & when they told us there was a cover we were left annoyed. We didn’t know how well it would be inside & we didn’t want to waste money on it if it sucked. While we were debating, Scott had a friend come & get him inside. Vadim & I saw a friend we knew with his friend. They were leaving & suggested that we take their bracelets. So we did & snuck past the bouncer. I got in fine, no problem. But, Vadim on the other hand was stopped by the girl in the front. He began to make up some lie about how she had let him out without the stamp she was asking for. Either she just didn’t care or was tired of his arguing, she let him in. I went to go to the bar to get a drink & I saw 3 twinks in their manties dancing on top of the bar. They had bottles in their hands & were serving out shots. One got me to hold my neck back & open my mouth. Normally, I wouldn’t do that but hey, they were twinks with liquor bottles. They gave to other patrons but I started to notice they just kept asking me to come over. Finally one told me that he recognized me from the parade. Oh snap! These were the twinks checking me out earlier. I ended up spending no money which is a wonderful thing. Vadim even took a page from Nick’s Lavatory Love Story book by disappearing with this random guy. Scott informed me that we should leave since I wasn’t gonna hook up with the twinks & we couldn’t find Vadim. I found it odd being that he had left his bag with me. Vadim would never do such a thing. But, 10 minutes later he had me convinced since we still couldn’t find him. So off we go to Posh with me holding onto his bag not realizing that we in had in fact left Vadim inside alone. Posh was ok & it was getting late. I had also made a new friend so I decided I would leave Scott to his own defenses. Turns out I shouldn’t have done this because some homophobe decided to try to fuck with Scott once he was alone eating pizza. Luckily, some guys came to Scott’s defense & all was well. But, had they not I fear that I would have had to deal with another gay bashing story & this time it would be hitting close to home since it was my friend. Why this seems to occur every year I’m not sure. I’ve never had that problem but seriously I was running around in next to nothing. Why homophobia has to rear it’s ugly head I do not get. Why do I have to end this fabulous blog with a downer? I’m not sure but I wanted to finish what I had started before I left for North Carolina. Little did I know just how much of a downer that was gonna become………….
TO BE CONTINUED
Friday, June 19, 2009
Defining Moments
My eyes are open wide
By the way I made it through the day
I watch the world outside
By the way I’m leaving out today
Throughout life we have defining moments. Things that happen to us where we can instantly go back in time & remember what we were doing at that exact moment. World events, graduating from school, first loves, first kisses….. I could go on & on. It’s hard to believe that I’ve been here in NYC for 9 yrs. So much has happened & so much growth. I was chatting with a friend the other day about how so many people we know have been moving out of the city recently. He said, “Do you think we’re New Yorkers for life?” I said I guess so. There’s not really anywhere else that I think I would move to right now. I think about the friends that I have made while here. Then I think about how so many of them have been leaving. What is that phrase that people say? That some people come into your life for a reason, a season, and then those that stay for life. I’ve definitely experienced all of that. Truthfully, no matter what, I am thankful for it.
Soon, I will be making a return to my home state of NC. It’s been since May 2007 so it is high time I made the trip back. My sister Andrea turns 21 & it’s utterly hard to believe. When I have dreams about my sisters they are always still really young. It’s rather funny that in my dreams with them I am always 10 yrs younger as well. (Somewhere one of my gays is saying out loud mmmhhhmm you wish bitch) It’s like in a way they will always be the little girls I left when I moved from NC to here. It’s always a shock to the system when I see them & they’re all grown up. I’m also looking forward to seeing some old NC friends that I haven’t seen in way too long. Way back in the mid 90’s I was working at my first job. It was at a store called Music Swap. I had been going there for years & each week I would buy the new singles that had come out that week. I would listen to Rick Dees & Casey Kasem’s Top 40 countdowns. I always kept up with what was new & what was hot & what was the current #1 song. A few weeks back I was riding around with Chase & he was listening to a 90’s station on satellite radio. It just so happened to be an old airing of the Rick Dees show. It was like I was transported back to be a kid & in my room listening to the show. So many years later & I was still able to remember what the number one song in America was. Crazy right? It’s like I’m the Rain Man of American Top 40.
While working at Music Swap I met someone who would later become a lifetime friend. All because she needed to order a Pet Shop Boys tape. As it turns out she used to babysit for my best friend’s sister. She ended up becoming one of my best friends. We would go through arguments, through laughs, through many car problems, through moves to different cities to even her being there when I came out. If someone had told me then as a young teen working at Music Swap that she would become someone that I could always count on & someone that I would still be calling every week to gab with I probably would have shrugged it off & been like ok sure. But, through all these years I’m utterly glad that even though I’ve been here in NY I can always count on her to be there when I need her. She’ll be the one who I’ll yell ‘Shuley, I’m a Celebrity get me out of here!’ as we take the 4 hr trip from Elkin to Wilmington in a few weeks. Now, let’s just hope there are NO car troubles & that the sun shines while we get our tan on at the beach. She’s in dire need of some scandal & shenanigans so I’m figuring that I need to bring my NY A game. NC, I hope you’re ready.
Recently, someone that has been in my life off & on for almost 8 yrs moved out of the city for good. We met at a Labor Day party at Webster Hall in 2001. Literally a week before 9/11 went down. I was dancing on top of a box & saw him & for a while I wasn’t sure if he was even gay since he danced like a straight guy. So I sent my friend Krizia over to check for me. Needless to say he played for my team & played for my team he did. At 23 I was utterly in love & to quote Aretha ‘I never loved a man the way I loved you.’ Hell, the lyrics to the song I felt I lived through for years & years. In so many ways he was the Big to my Carrie. Never able to fully commit to a relationship, kept my heart on a string off & on throughout the years & then when he was ready to settle down I was not the one he chose. It was like I had put in all the effort & someone else got the benefits. So for years we would go in between being friends to not speaking to being friends again. Mind you fitting 8 yrs of history in this one paragraph can not be done. But looking back I am glad it happened. At 23 I never thought I would love someone like that. I had had relationships with girls & a few guys but I had not fully put someone else’s needs before my own. If it had not been for Tim I wouldn’t have seen that I do have that in me. He came into my life for a reason & even though he is now gone & out of the country I will still hold him dear to my heart. Who knows, maybe one day I’ll take this show to location Switzerland for a special visit. Sweeps week maybe. I’ll wait till I hear from him & hear how the scene is out there. I always remembered the fact that we here at the same time & it’s funny because now that he’s gone I realize that out of all my friends I’m one of them that has been here the longest.
Being that I have been here so long I have had many, many chances to meet people who are only here for a short time. Many have impacted my life but most recently I think about a friend that came in out of nowhere & then just like that she was gone. It was a night in early December & I had off that Monday. It’s so rare that I go out on Sunday’s since I have to be up so early. I had went out with Chase & some other friends & he had said that a new friend of his was suppose to meet us. He told me a little about her but I didn’t know what she looked like. That night we had had drama with trying to get into this venue & with so much waiting I had gotten bored & was like I should have just stayed home & watched tv. We ended up at Park & was sitting around. I told Chase that I was probably gonna leave when I was done with my drink. I looked up & saw a girl walking around looking a little lost. I thought to myself hmmm I wonder if this is Chase’s friend. She ended up walking right by us & for a second I thought that maybe I should get up & ask her her name. Being that I was semi-bitchy I decided against it. A few minutes passed & I finished my drink so I was gonna say my goodbyes. Then this girl walked back up to us & hugged Chase. Turns out it was Katie & I shouldn’t have been a bitch & stopped her. We chatted for a little bit & she’s like I need to do a shot. I perked up & thought oh my, my kind of girl. She ended up buying me a shot as well & before I knew it I was engrossed in conversation with her. The night had all of a sudden gotten so much better. Just like that we had become fast friends & just like that she found herself to be apart of our group. Over the next few months we experienced a lot of things. Drunken talks about anything & everything while watching award shows, hospital visits, New Years eve, clubbing until all hours….. wow, now that I type it out I could go on & on for days. But my favorite was our trip to Jersey to see the one & only Britney Spears. She had gotten tickets & in our absolute surprise the seats were UH MAY ZING. We were literally right next to the stage & I had an absolute blast. We were rocking out in our Britney tees (me in a tank obvi) & dancing up a storm. A few weeks after the concert there was a very unfortunate fire at her house. She was ok but all her stuff was gone. We took it as a sign that maybe it was time for her to leave NY. Then just as quick as she came in she rolled out. She was literally here for a season & even though it was a short time I had a wonderful time with her. She’s now in Seattle where she has met new gays & she’s happy with the life she is creating there. She’s even apparently met another cute gay Nick. It makes me giggle & I know she’ll not be surprised to hear me say that it must be nice but no one can do it like me! Katie when you hear If U Seek Amy you better not substitute the new Nick for the old one. I have that ish copyrighted.
It’s the defining moments like these that makes me think about how some people are here in NY for a quick season. Some people are here to accomplish something & then move on and then some are here for a lifetime. It makes me wonder what the future holds in store for me & will I still be here 9 years from now. No one knows I guess but I’ll just keep doing me & let life lead me where I need to go.
By the way I made it through the day
I watch the world outside
By the way I’m leaving out today
Throughout life we have defining moments. Things that happen to us where we can instantly go back in time & remember what we were doing at that exact moment. World events, graduating from school, first loves, first kisses….. I could go on & on. It’s hard to believe that I’ve been here in NYC for 9 yrs. So much has happened & so much growth. I was chatting with a friend the other day about how so many people we know have been moving out of the city recently. He said, “Do you think we’re New Yorkers for life?” I said I guess so. There’s not really anywhere else that I think I would move to right now. I think about the friends that I have made while here. Then I think about how so many of them have been leaving. What is that phrase that people say? That some people come into your life for a reason, a season, and then those that stay for life. I’ve definitely experienced all of that. Truthfully, no matter what, I am thankful for it.
Soon, I will be making a return to my home state of NC. It’s been since May 2007 so it is high time I made the trip back. My sister Andrea turns 21 & it’s utterly hard to believe. When I have dreams about my sisters they are always still really young. It’s rather funny that in my dreams with them I am always 10 yrs younger as well. (Somewhere one of my gays is saying out loud mmmhhhmm you wish bitch) It’s like in a way they will always be the little girls I left when I moved from NC to here. It’s always a shock to the system when I see them & they’re all grown up. I’m also looking forward to seeing some old NC friends that I haven’t seen in way too long. Way back in the mid 90’s I was working at my first job. It was at a store called Music Swap. I had been going there for years & each week I would buy the new singles that had come out that week. I would listen to Rick Dees & Casey Kasem’s Top 40 countdowns. I always kept up with what was new & what was hot & what was the current #1 song. A few weeks back I was riding around with Chase & he was listening to a 90’s station on satellite radio. It just so happened to be an old airing of the Rick Dees show. It was like I was transported back to be a kid & in my room listening to the show. So many years later & I was still able to remember what the number one song in America was. Crazy right? It’s like I’m the Rain Man of American Top 40.
While working at Music Swap I met someone who would later become a lifetime friend. All because she needed to order a Pet Shop Boys tape. As it turns out she used to babysit for my best friend’s sister. She ended up becoming one of my best friends. We would go through arguments, through laughs, through many car problems, through moves to different cities to even her being there when I came out. If someone had told me then as a young teen working at Music Swap that she would become someone that I could always count on & someone that I would still be calling every week to gab with I probably would have shrugged it off & been like ok sure. But, through all these years I’m utterly glad that even though I’ve been here in NY I can always count on her to be there when I need her. She’ll be the one who I’ll yell ‘Shuley, I’m a Celebrity get me out of here!’ as we take the 4 hr trip from Elkin to Wilmington in a few weeks. Now, let’s just hope there are NO car troubles & that the sun shines while we get our tan on at the beach. She’s in dire need of some scandal & shenanigans so I’m figuring that I need to bring my NY A game. NC, I hope you’re ready.
Recently, someone that has been in my life off & on for almost 8 yrs moved out of the city for good. We met at a Labor Day party at Webster Hall in 2001. Literally a week before 9/11 went down. I was dancing on top of a box & saw him & for a while I wasn’t sure if he was even gay since he danced like a straight guy. So I sent my friend Krizia over to check for me. Needless to say he played for my team & played for my team he did. At 23 I was utterly in love & to quote Aretha ‘I never loved a man the way I loved you.’ Hell, the lyrics to the song I felt I lived through for years & years. In so many ways he was the Big to my Carrie. Never able to fully commit to a relationship, kept my heart on a string off & on throughout the years & then when he was ready to settle down I was not the one he chose. It was like I had put in all the effort & someone else got the benefits. So for years we would go in between being friends to not speaking to being friends again. Mind you fitting 8 yrs of history in this one paragraph can not be done. But looking back I am glad it happened. At 23 I never thought I would love someone like that. I had had relationships with girls & a few guys but I had not fully put someone else’s needs before my own. If it had not been for Tim I wouldn’t have seen that I do have that in me. He came into my life for a reason & even though he is now gone & out of the country I will still hold him dear to my heart. Who knows, maybe one day I’ll take this show to location Switzerland for a special visit. Sweeps week maybe. I’ll wait till I hear from him & hear how the scene is out there. I always remembered the fact that we here at the same time & it’s funny because now that he’s gone I realize that out of all my friends I’m one of them that has been here the longest.
Being that I have been here so long I have had many, many chances to meet people who are only here for a short time. Many have impacted my life but most recently I think about a friend that came in out of nowhere & then just like that she was gone. It was a night in early December & I had off that Monday. It’s so rare that I go out on Sunday’s since I have to be up so early. I had went out with Chase & some other friends & he had said that a new friend of his was suppose to meet us. He told me a little about her but I didn’t know what she looked like. That night we had had drama with trying to get into this venue & with so much waiting I had gotten bored & was like I should have just stayed home & watched tv. We ended up at Park & was sitting around. I told Chase that I was probably gonna leave when I was done with my drink. I looked up & saw a girl walking around looking a little lost. I thought to myself hmmm I wonder if this is Chase’s friend. She ended up walking right by us & for a second I thought that maybe I should get up & ask her her name. Being that I was semi-bitchy I decided against it. A few minutes passed & I finished my drink so I was gonna say my goodbyes. Then this girl walked back up to us & hugged Chase. Turns out it was Katie & I shouldn’t have been a bitch & stopped her. We chatted for a little bit & she’s like I need to do a shot. I perked up & thought oh my, my kind of girl. She ended up buying me a shot as well & before I knew it I was engrossed in conversation with her. The night had all of a sudden gotten so much better. Just like that we had become fast friends & just like that she found herself to be apart of our group. Over the next few months we experienced a lot of things. Drunken talks about anything & everything while watching award shows, hospital visits, New Years eve, clubbing until all hours….. wow, now that I type it out I could go on & on for days. But my favorite was our trip to Jersey to see the one & only Britney Spears. She had gotten tickets & in our absolute surprise the seats were UH MAY ZING. We were literally right next to the stage & I had an absolute blast. We were rocking out in our Britney tees (me in a tank obvi) & dancing up a storm. A few weeks after the concert there was a very unfortunate fire at her house. She was ok but all her stuff was gone. We took it as a sign that maybe it was time for her to leave NY. Then just as quick as she came in she rolled out. She was literally here for a season & even though it was a short time I had a wonderful time with her. She’s now in Seattle where she has met new gays & she’s happy with the life she is creating there. She’s even apparently met another cute gay Nick. It makes me giggle & I know she’ll not be surprised to hear me say that it must be nice but no one can do it like me! Katie when you hear If U Seek Amy you better not substitute the new Nick for the old one. I have that ish copyrighted.
It’s the defining moments like these that makes me think about how some people are here in NY for a quick season. Some people are here to accomplish something & then move on and then some are here for a lifetime. It makes me wonder what the future holds in store for me & will I still be here 9 years from now. No one knows I guess but I’ll just keep doing me & let life lead me where I need to go.
Friday, May 29, 2009
Promises, Promises
Remember when I said I was gonna blog more during the month of May?Oops!!! I did it again & lied. Here it is almost the last day of the month & I’m just now getting to it. There was a lot going on this month & let’s see if I can remember it all. At the beginning of the month I went to go see Lady GaGa at Terminal 5 with Tasia, Kinnon, Tasha & Xtina. This was my 2nd time seeing her & man oh man GaGa has definitely gained some fans since I last met her & saw her perform in October. Girls, Gays, Girls! Could be the title of the night. I was pushed & shoved so much it was insane. My group & I were literally hating people at the beginning of the night. These 2 tall guys that were on my left were basically f*cking & being too drunk & obnoxious for their own good. Don’t get me wrong, I love to cause a scene but for real this was ridiculous. Even their friends were telling them to stop. Behind me was a boy/girl/tranny hootinanny who was all up on my jock (I think bc we were all crammed). On my right was a little blonde girl who kept saying she couldn’t see anything. In a nutshell it was nanners. Finally GaGa came out & thrilled us all. Love Game had Tasia & I in a tizzy since we love us some love games. The acoustic performance of Poker Face was flawless. The shout out for the gays on Boys Boys Boys was awesome. New songs about vibrator’s was just as interesting as her sitting at a piano dressed in bubbles. No shit, bitch was in bubbles. I LIVED for it. She’s becoming a better performer more & more. I just saw her video to Paparazzi & it seriously brings video to the art form that music video’s were back in the day. I haven’t seen a video I have really liked in quite some time. All in all we had a great time & I left there smelling like vodka. Not because I was drunk but because I kept getting so many drinks spilled on me. We then went back to my place & I deejayed for us & poured drinks & we had an awesome time. Tasia debuted the Tasia shuffle & I’ve been doing it since.
On Mother’s Day I went to B.B. King’s with Scott & his friend Esmerelda to see En Vogue. They got back together to do a lil reunion tour, all original members. This show was very different in the sense that no one shoved & pushed. We were all still close to each other but it was not insane. There were still tons of gays with one screaming behind me every 5 minutes at Dawn telling her to Work! This other girl with a side pony tail decided to cut in front of me so she could tape them on her camera. I decided not to cut her on the good side of the face basically because bitch didn’t have a good side. J/k but not really. The show was awesome & each member tore it up. They were a different kind of girl group in the sense that every single member had lead vocals on many of the hit songs they had. Cindy looked amazing for having popped out 4 kiddies. Scott & I were beyond excited when she took our hands at the end of the show. Ok, so it’s more like we ran up to take her hands but whatevs. Dawn’s tig ole bitties were much larger than I remembered. Maxine’s vocals were as strong as they were back in the day. Lastly, Terri gave so much runway face & slick moves the gays were eating her up. They ended their show with Free Your Mind which had the crowd roaring. All in all they gave us something we could feel & they should know that our lovin’…. well they’re always gonna get it. That memory I will Hold On to for sure.
This month has continued to hit me musically because Kylie announced she was coming to the states FINALLY so you know I had to get a ticket for that. Pink is also bringing her sass here as well. Both of these shows go down in October so I will be looking forward to both of those shows.
This month also brought all the season finale to ALL my shows I watch. Desperate Housewives finally brought a conclusion to the crazy guy & I’m thinking that Susan will finally be back with Mike. Linette needs to seriously stop having children. Her bad ass kids have always drove me nanners. I thought Brothers & Sisters was a lil ho hum. Still good but somehow I was expecting more. Gossip Girl was ok but got really good in the last few minutes. I’m also a sucker for Dancing With The Stars which I also call Dancing with the Z-Listers or old bitches. I had always wanted Lil’ Kim to be in the finals. Just like a ball of yarn to a kitty it was somehow yanked away from her. I never watched the Bachelor but I have to say I thought Melissa was really good. I liked Shawn & Giles equally & thought they all were deserving of the win. Big ups to Shawn for being the youngest winner ever.
90210 is a major guilty pleasure & after seeing this last episode I think I will have to stop watching next season. Now watch them bring back Luke Perry or some mess just so I will have to watch. I Love Money 2 is another guilty pleasure. Frenchie cracks my shit up & when they have to have captions for what she says printed out the way it sounds always makes me giggle. Still watching the Real World/Road Rules challenge & big ups to Mark showing the kids how to keep up. South Park still makes me LOL 12 years strong. I also read that the shows that they made just for me Samantha Who, Eli Stone & Dirty Sexy Money were canceled. Oh well, I enjoyed it while it lasted. 30 Rock continues to get better & better with each episode. SNL seems to have good weeks equally with bad weeks. I guess it just depends on the host & the writers running out of ideas. Anything with Kristen Wiig is hilarious. Ugly Betty is still awesome (to me) but now that it’s being moved to Friday’s I guess that means I need to start saying goodbye to it as well. I have always been most like Amanda’s character. That last episode was really sad & I felt bad for Betty & Daniel.
Speaking of feeling bad, Grey’s Anatomy had me more torn up then I thought it would. I was not expecting that outcome AT ALL. Call me a wuss but when any show deals with a tumor I become a wreck. Maybe because it hits too close to home but damn, when it was over I sat there for a good 5 minutes just upset. I had to tell myself it was just a frickin tv show & that’s all. Damn, I can be a softie. On The Tudor’s it seems no one is a softie. Heads rolling left & right. This season kind of sucked to me. The first two were awesome & I hear the next season is the last. It’s gotta be true because they are gonna run out of wives really soon.
As for all the American Idol mess….. well what can I say? I think I jinxed Adam when I posted a facebook status saying if we can get a black man to the White House then maybe we can get a gay to be the next American Idol. Oh well, promises, promises. I really do like Adam & I’m sure he’ll do fine. Now it seems everyone is putting him on blast about not coming out. I feel a lil torn about this. I understand why everyone wants him to be a role model & come out. I also understand why he hasn’t totally. But seriously people, I (like so many others) have seen the pics online. Bitch is gay, now call it a muthaf*ckin’ day & leave it alone. (Quick Note: Absolutely loved the first episode of Glee & I can’t wait for the fall for the rest of the episodes)
I think I have covered all my tv show addictions. So You Think You Can Dance & Weeds will be what I’ll be watching in the meantime. For those of you reading & thinking why didn’t he tell a fabulous story or something? Don’t worry babies. Just like famous politicians I’ll get around to it. Wink wink
I have also been listening to a LOT of upcoming & new artists. There are a ton of songs that will be vying for the title of Summer Jam. So let me hit you with 15 songs that I’ve been cranking the month of May.
1. I Know You Want Me/Pitbull
2. Patron Tequila/Paradiso Girls feat. Lil’ Wayne & Eve
3. Fire Burning/Sean Kingston
4. Good Girls Go Bad/Cobra Starship feat. Leighton Meester (Gossip Girl)
5. Heartbreak (Make Me A Dancer)/Freemason’s feat. Sophie Ellis-Bextor
6. Evacuate The Dancefloor/Cascada
7. Waking Up In Vegas/Katy Perry
8. Imma Be/Black Eyed Peas
9. Don’t Trust Me/3 Oh3!
10. Work/Saturdays
11. Don’t Stop Believin’/Glee Cast
12. Epiphany/Chrisette Michele
13. You Belong With Me/Taylor Swift
14. Hush, Hush/Pussycat Dolls
15. Love Struck/V Factory
On Mother’s Day I went to B.B. King’s with Scott & his friend Esmerelda to see En Vogue. They got back together to do a lil reunion tour, all original members. This show was very different in the sense that no one shoved & pushed. We were all still close to each other but it was not insane. There were still tons of gays with one screaming behind me every 5 minutes at Dawn telling her to Work! This other girl with a side pony tail decided to cut in front of me so she could tape them on her camera. I decided not to cut her on the good side of the face basically because bitch didn’t have a good side. J/k but not really. The show was awesome & each member tore it up. They were a different kind of girl group in the sense that every single member had lead vocals on many of the hit songs they had. Cindy looked amazing for having popped out 4 kiddies. Scott & I were beyond excited when she took our hands at the end of the show. Ok, so it’s more like we ran up to take her hands but whatevs. Dawn’s tig ole bitties were much larger than I remembered. Maxine’s vocals were as strong as they were back in the day. Lastly, Terri gave so much runway face & slick moves the gays were eating her up. They ended their show with Free Your Mind which had the crowd roaring. All in all they gave us something we could feel & they should know that our lovin’…. well they’re always gonna get it. That memory I will Hold On to for sure.
This month has continued to hit me musically because Kylie announced she was coming to the states FINALLY so you know I had to get a ticket for that. Pink is also bringing her sass here as well. Both of these shows go down in October so I will be looking forward to both of those shows.
This month also brought all the season finale to ALL my shows I watch. Desperate Housewives finally brought a conclusion to the crazy guy & I’m thinking that Susan will finally be back with Mike. Linette needs to seriously stop having children. Her bad ass kids have always drove me nanners. I thought Brothers & Sisters was a lil ho hum. Still good but somehow I was expecting more. Gossip Girl was ok but got really good in the last few minutes. I’m also a sucker for Dancing With The Stars which I also call Dancing with the Z-Listers or old bitches. I had always wanted Lil’ Kim to be in the finals. Just like a ball of yarn to a kitty it was somehow yanked away from her. I never watched the Bachelor but I have to say I thought Melissa was really good. I liked Shawn & Giles equally & thought they all were deserving of the win. Big ups to Shawn for being the youngest winner ever.
90210 is a major guilty pleasure & after seeing this last episode I think I will have to stop watching next season. Now watch them bring back Luke Perry or some mess just so I will have to watch. I Love Money 2 is another guilty pleasure. Frenchie cracks my shit up & when they have to have captions for what she says printed out the way it sounds always makes me giggle. Still watching the Real World/Road Rules challenge & big ups to Mark showing the kids how to keep up. South Park still makes me LOL 12 years strong. I also read that the shows that they made just for me Samantha Who, Eli Stone & Dirty Sexy Money were canceled. Oh well, I enjoyed it while it lasted. 30 Rock continues to get better & better with each episode. SNL seems to have good weeks equally with bad weeks. I guess it just depends on the host & the writers running out of ideas. Anything with Kristen Wiig is hilarious. Ugly Betty is still awesome (to me) but now that it’s being moved to Friday’s I guess that means I need to start saying goodbye to it as well. I have always been most like Amanda’s character. That last episode was really sad & I felt bad for Betty & Daniel.
Speaking of feeling bad, Grey’s Anatomy had me more torn up then I thought it would. I was not expecting that outcome AT ALL. Call me a wuss but when any show deals with a tumor I become a wreck. Maybe because it hits too close to home but damn, when it was over I sat there for a good 5 minutes just upset. I had to tell myself it was just a frickin tv show & that’s all. Damn, I can be a softie. On The Tudor’s it seems no one is a softie. Heads rolling left & right. This season kind of sucked to me. The first two were awesome & I hear the next season is the last. It’s gotta be true because they are gonna run out of wives really soon.
As for all the American Idol mess….. well what can I say? I think I jinxed Adam when I posted a facebook status saying if we can get a black man to the White House then maybe we can get a gay to be the next American Idol. Oh well, promises, promises. I really do like Adam & I’m sure he’ll do fine. Now it seems everyone is putting him on blast about not coming out. I feel a lil torn about this. I understand why everyone wants him to be a role model & come out. I also understand why he hasn’t totally. But seriously people, I (like so many others) have seen the pics online. Bitch is gay, now call it a muthaf*ckin’ day & leave it alone. (Quick Note: Absolutely loved the first episode of Glee & I can’t wait for the fall for the rest of the episodes)
I think I have covered all my tv show addictions. So You Think You Can Dance & Weeds will be what I’ll be watching in the meantime. For those of you reading & thinking why didn’t he tell a fabulous story or something? Don’t worry babies. Just like famous politicians I’ll get around to it. Wink wink
I have also been listening to a LOT of upcoming & new artists. There are a ton of songs that will be vying for the title of Summer Jam. So let me hit you with 15 songs that I’ve been cranking the month of May.
1. I Know You Want Me/Pitbull
2. Patron Tequila/Paradiso Girls feat. Lil’ Wayne & Eve
3. Fire Burning/Sean Kingston
4. Good Girls Go Bad/Cobra Starship feat. Leighton Meester (Gossip Girl)
5. Heartbreak (Make Me A Dancer)/Freemason’s feat. Sophie Ellis-Bextor
6. Evacuate The Dancefloor/Cascada
7. Waking Up In Vegas/Katy Perry
8. Imma Be/Black Eyed Peas
9. Don’t Trust Me/3 Oh3!
10. Work/Saturdays
11. Don’t Stop Believin’/Glee Cast
12. Epiphany/Chrisette Michele
13. You Belong With Me/Taylor Swift
14. Hush, Hush/Pussycat Dolls
15. Love Struck/V Factory
Thursday, April 30, 2009
Blame It On the Never Ending Birthdays
I’ve been gone for a minute but now I’m back with the jump off. I’m so 3008 but my blogs have been so 2000 & late! So, so, so much to discuss but at this point it’s like my first time so we’re gonna have to take it gently. I had meant to discuss a lot of things in March & then found myself not having the time. Then something happened that I was definitely NOT prepared for. Right at the end of March I found out I was gonna have to serve on a grand jury. What is a grand jury you ask? Well let me tell you because I certainly had no idea what it was. I thought it was just like any other jury & that I’d get off after a few days or a week even. I had served back in August of 2003 during the blackout & that lasted all of 5 days. Quick & over. Imagine my surprise when they said that we would all be there for 4 weeks. I would still be able to go to work during the day but then I would have to report to jury duty form 2-5 pm. Work had a shit fit but there was nothing that could be done. I was told it was my civic duty. You know who else’s civic duty it is? All my frickin friends who have lived here as well & have NEVER been called. I’ve been here in NYC for 9 yrs & this is my 2nd time. By the end of my term I was trying to do a refer a friend program. The gym gives you $50 credit if you refer a friend. Too bad the government doesn’t because I could be loaded by all the friends of mine who have never had to do this shizz!
Many people would ask what kind of case I was on but that’s the thing….. being a grand juror means you hear different cases every single day. Your job is to decide if the case has enough evidence to go to trial. Mostly the cases were boring & I found myself drifting off to sleep all the time. In my defense, I have a short attention span & sitting for long periods of time listening to mono-tone voices will surely put anyone to sleep. There were a few cases that were actually good & I couldn’t believe some of the stuff people were doing. Guilty, guilty, ghetto bitches does come to mind when thinking of some people. One defendant came in to plead his case & if anything he made it worse just by opening his mouth. He had been accused of holding up 3 teens & robbing them at gun point. Later he was arrested & been picked out in the line up by the teens. He still claimed his innocence. His testimony went something like this:
Yo I don’t know why I’m here. It’s whatever, I didn’t do it. I was up in Brooklyn with my girl all weekend fo realz. Yo I didn’t leave all weekend. It’s whatever whatever.
The assistant district attorney then brought up how the defendants mother lived near the incident & showed further evidence that he was in the area visiting his mother. Dude makes an incriminating face & continues to go on a rant where he ends each sentence with it’s whatever. I kid you not, he said whatever 132 times. I started counting because I was so incredibly bored of his crazy, guilty ass that could’t speak proper english. What I found interesting was certain members of the jury who didn’t want to vote yes for a trial because they didn’t think there was enough evidence. Half the time it was like, “Biiiiittttchhh, please! Are you not hearing the same things I’m hearing?” Many cases seem to be about people selling crack or coke or heroin. One day I joked to the room that today’s cases were brought to us by the letter C & the color white. Now can you tell me how to get…. how to get off the crack street?
All jokes aside there were a few cases that were a lil rough to sit through just because it was definitely no fun & games. More like fun & drunken games gone terribly wrong. It reminded me why I don’t like to watch cop shows or Law & Order or any show like that. I’ll take my Dancing with old bitches, gossip whores, NBC comedies, ABC dramas & VH1 reality crap shows where people love money any day of the week. They’re wonderful ways to take your mind off of the REAL real world drama. (Like this swine flu shizz. Good grief I didn’t even know about it this time last week & now it’s all over the news!) So last Friday was wonderful knowing that my term had come to an end & my life could get back to somewhat normal.
Well as normal as one can be when you hang with my crew. January, February & March have always been months where I knew I was gonna be b’day’d to death. But, my oh my…. let me find out I need to add April to that list. Even since I last blogged in February I’ve been a part of countless b’days. Weekend after weekend there’s been cake, drinks, cupcakes, drinks, chips, drinks, dips, drinks & oh did I say drinks? Each b’day party had some memorable moments for sure. Chase’s always involves some hot places to get your dance on. Vadim is like a sure thing. Drunken good times with your besties at Pyramid & Splash. Although as I sit here trying to remember certain moments, I can’t think of any. I’ll just blame it on the ah-ah-ah-ah-ah alcohol. For Benjamin’s we showed up to one bar & then had our own lil mini pride walk to the next club while taking over the streets of downtown. Quite fabulous & it gave me ideas for my own b’day in a few months. Hanging out with Shawn D is always a wonderful time & I wish we could do it more often. At his I found myself posing with twinks, hotties & drag queens. Oh MY! Recently, at my boo Tasia’s I found myself traveling to Brooklyn for the evening. I had supplied the music which was of course uh-may-zing! I even found myself stuck chatting with her semi quasi bf. He was ok until he kept wanting to play maudlin, boring music from the university station. I was like eh! What is it about college & cry baby music? (Mad props to the readers if you know that quote) But seriously, I can be mean about him now since he became a total douche & decided to break up with my boo over a text! Who the hell does that? Grow a pair & get over yourself.
I even got to see my beautiful blonde counterpart from NC for a hot NY minute while she visited on her b’day. Adrienne, how I miss you already & I promise I’m gonna get down to NC soon. For Matt B’s last week he had a lovely raffle for all his guests who could win adorable little prizes. Poor Scott couldn’t even win one of those. Don’t feel bad though Scott, the last lotto I was in I won but it was to be a fricking juror for 4 months. Matt also had baked these tasty, tasty cupcakes for everyone & I know I had at least 3. Which is not something I normally do in front of people but in my defense I was HONGRY! It was sooo good I found myself leaving with 3 that were left in a tinfoil tray. Please picture this as I was parading up 9th avenue in the rain with cupcakes. As a guy walked by me looking up & down he goes, “Oooo nice cupcakes.” Which made me giggle. Without skipping a beat, I smiled & turned in a circle as if I was working the runway & then went about my way. Giving it to the fans never seems to have a day off but I had to make it home in time for American Idol. Which has been pretty good I have to say. If America can vote for a black president then surely we can have a gay American Idol. Raise up queen! You got this!!!
Since I didn’t hit you up with a blog in March I wasn’t able to do a top 10 list so now I’m gonna hit up with an extended one for April. Some of it I can’t believe I like but somehow it penetrated my ears & got me jamming. Enjoy & I promise to blog so much more soon!
1. Love & Sex & Magic/Ciara & Justin Timberlake
2. Halo/Beyonce
3. Jai Ho/The Pussycat Dolls
4. Boom Boom Pow/Black Eyed Peas
5. Right Round/Flo Rida feat. Keshia
6. Ride My Tempo/Ida Corr
7. Poker Face(acoustic version)/Lady GaGa
8. Blame It/Jamie Foxx feat. T-Pain
9. Day N’ Nite/Kid Cudi
10. I Do Not Hook Up/Kelly Clarkson
11. The Climb/Miley Cyrus
12. Knock You Down/Keri Hilson, Kanye West & Ne-Yo
13. Now I’m That Bitch/Livvi Franc
14. Love Takes Over/David Guetta feat. Kelly Rowland
15. Give It To Me Right/Melanie Fiona
16. Not Fair/Lily Allen
17. T.O.N.Y./Solange Knowles
18. I’m Not Alone/Calvin Harris
19. Change/Daniel Merriweather feat. Wale
20. Takin’ Back My Love/Enrique Iglesias feat. Ciara
Many people would ask what kind of case I was on but that’s the thing….. being a grand juror means you hear different cases every single day. Your job is to decide if the case has enough evidence to go to trial. Mostly the cases were boring & I found myself drifting off to sleep all the time. In my defense, I have a short attention span & sitting for long periods of time listening to mono-tone voices will surely put anyone to sleep. There were a few cases that were actually good & I couldn’t believe some of the stuff people were doing. Guilty, guilty, ghetto bitches does come to mind when thinking of some people. One defendant came in to plead his case & if anything he made it worse just by opening his mouth. He had been accused of holding up 3 teens & robbing them at gun point. Later he was arrested & been picked out in the line up by the teens. He still claimed his innocence. His testimony went something like this:
Yo I don’t know why I’m here. It’s whatever, I didn’t do it. I was up in Brooklyn with my girl all weekend fo realz. Yo I didn’t leave all weekend. It’s whatever whatever.
The assistant district attorney then brought up how the defendants mother lived near the incident & showed further evidence that he was in the area visiting his mother. Dude makes an incriminating face & continues to go on a rant where he ends each sentence with it’s whatever. I kid you not, he said whatever 132 times. I started counting because I was so incredibly bored of his crazy, guilty ass that could’t speak proper english. What I found interesting was certain members of the jury who didn’t want to vote yes for a trial because they didn’t think there was enough evidence. Half the time it was like, “Biiiiittttchhh, please! Are you not hearing the same things I’m hearing?” Many cases seem to be about people selling crack or coke or heroin. One day I joked to the room that today’s cases were brought to us by the letter C & the color white. Now can you tell me how to get…. how to get off the crack street?
All jokes aside there were a few cases that were a lil rough to sit through just because it was definitely no fun & games. More like fun & drunken games gone terribly wrong. It reminded me why I don’t like to watch cop shows or Law & Order or any show like that. I’ll take my Dancing with old bitches, gossip whores, NBC comedies, ABC dramas & VH1 reality crap shows where people love money any day of the week. They’re wonderful ways to take your mind off of the REAL real world drama. (Like this swine flu shizz. Good grief I didn’t even know about it this time last week & now it’s all over the news!) So last Friday was wonderful knowing that my term had come to an end & my life could get back to somewhat normal.
Well as normal as one can be when you hang with my crew. January, February & March have always been months where I knew I was gonna be b’day’d to death. But, my oh my…. let me find out I need to add April to that list. Even since I last blogged in February I’ve been a part of countless b’days. Weekend after weekend there’s been cake, drinks, cupcakes, drinks, chips, drinks, dips, drinks & oh did I say drinks? Each b’day party had some memorable moments for sure. Chase’s always involves some hot places to get your dance on. Vadim is like a sure thing. Drunken good times with your besties at Pyramid & Splash. Although as I sit here trying to remember certain moments, I can’t think of any. I’ll just blame it on the ah-ah-ah-ah-ah alcohol. For Benjamin’s we showed up to one bar & then had our own lil mini pride walk to the next club while taking over the streets of downtown. Quite fabulous & it gave me ideas for my own b’day in a few months. Hanging out with Shawn D is always a wonderful time & I wish we could do it more often. At his I found myself posing with twinks, hotties & drag queens. Oh MY! Recently, at my boo Tasia’s I found myself traveling to Brooklyn for the evening. I had supplied the music which was of course uh-may-zing! I even found myself stuck chatting with her semi quasi bf. He was ok until he kept wanting to play maudlin, boring music from the university station. I was like eh! What is it about college & cry baby music? (Mad props to the readers if you know that quote) But seriously, I can be mean about him now since he became a total douche & decided to break up with my boo over a text! Who the hell does that? Grow a pair & get over yourself.
I even got to see my beautiful blonde counterpart from NC for a hot NY minute while she visited on her b’day. Adrienne, how I miss you already & I promise I’m gonna get down to NC soon. For Matt B’s last week he had a lovely raffle for all his guests who could win adorable little prizes. Poor Scott couldn’t even win one of those. Don’t feel bad though Scott, the last lotto I was in I won but it was to be a fricking juror for 4 months. Matt also had baked these tasty, tasty cupcakes for everyone & I know I had at least 3. Which is not something I normally do in front of people but in my defense I was HONGRY! It was sooo good I found myself leaving with 3 that were left in a tinfoil tray. Please picture this as I was parading up 9th avenue in the rain with cupcakes. As a guy walked by me looking up & down he goes, “Oooo nice cupcakes.” Which made me giggle. Without skipping a beat, I smiled & turned in a circle as if I was working the runway & then went about my way. Giving it to the fans never seems to have a day off but I had to make it home in time for American Idol. Which has been pretty good I have to say. If America can vote for a black president then surely we can have a gay American Idol. Raise up queen! You got this!!!
Since I didn’t hit you up with a blog in March I wasn’t able to do a top 10 list so now I’m gonna hit up with an extended one for April. Some of it I can’t believe I like but somehow it penetrated my ears & got me jamming. Enjoy & I promise to blog so much more soon!
1. Love & Sex & Magic/Ciara & Justin Timberlake
2. Halo/Beyonce
3. Jai Ho/The Pussycat Dolls
4. Boom Boom Pow/Black Eyed Peas
5. Right Round/Flo Rida feat. Keshia
6. Ride My Tempo/Ida Corr
7. Poker Face(acoustic version)/Lady GaGa
8. Blame It/Jamie Foxx feat. T-Pain
9. Day N’ Nite/Kid Cudi
10. I Do Not Hook Up/Kelly Clarkson
11. The Climb/Miley Cyrus
12. Knock You Down/Keri Hilson, Kanye West & Ne-Yo
13. Now I’m That Bitch/Livvi Franc
14. Love Takes Over/David Guetta feat. Kelly Rowland
15. Give It To Me Right/Melanie Fiona
16. Not Fair/Lily Allen
17. T.O.N.Y./Solange Knowles
18. I’m Not Alone/Calvin Harris
19. Change/Daniel Merriweather feat. Wale
20. Takin’ Back My Love/Enrique Iglesias feat. Ciara
Friday, February 20, 2009
i(F) yo(U) (C)ee(K) ME
Greetings & salutations blog readers. It’s been a cold, cold time on the hot NYC nights. I swear it has me thinking that next winter I’ll have to be like a bird & fly south for winter. To say it’s been chilly is an understatement. My willy don’t like this chilly. It’s no secret I would much rather take clothes off than to pile them on. I’m sure all of you have noticed with pics tagged on Facebook every weekend with me somehow half clothed. Earlier this week Facebook caused quite the hoopla when it issued something in the terms saying it had all rights to our pics & such. Naturally, I became livid & had to voice my concern. I mean seriously….. I refused signing up for that shizz for ages & then for them to say this is malarky! Luckily, they saw the error of their ways & changed their terms. If there is a profit to be made off of my drunken half naked poses while giving it to the fans, then I need to be making a profit off it. I mean hello! The economy is a bitch & I am having to scrimp & save mah damn self. But anyway, I digress….. enough about me. What do you think of me? This week I have been battling the case of an evil cold. That’s right readers, once again I have been sick. A plague has been put upon my mouth ever since the beginning of the year. First tonsillitis, now this massive cold. It’s been hitting everyone around me & I realize it’s the time for it but c’mon really? I try to stay healthy & I’m nuts about my gym routine. I thought this wasn’t suppose to happen to people who try to stay healthy? It’s when I pose that question that I think about my actions that lead up to said drunk pics all over the internet.
Oh baby baby have you seen Nicky tonight?
Is he in the bathroom? Is he waiting out in line? OH
Oh baby baby does he take a piece of lime
For the shot that Katie bought him
Cause she knows thats what he likes OH
Oh Oh tell me have you seen him
Cause I’m so oh I can’t get him out of my brain
I just want to go the party he gon’ go
Can somebody take me home
Ha ha hee hee ha ha ho
I have had social commitments to my ears for the past few weeks. Let’s see… first, there was 2 going away parties for some friends on the same night. I had to travel up to the upper, upper, upper…. oh hell let’s just say it… Canada! The train was acting a fool & Russell had told me I was gonna have to get off & switch to another or take a shuttle bus. Whatchu talking bout Russell? Only I couldn’t miss it because my British ladies Selina & Beverly were leaving to back across the pond. Selina cooked a lovely meal & it’s been such a rare time for me to get good home cooking. I don’t really cook because if it takes longer then 10 minutes I can’t be bothered. To be honest, I don’t even really like to eat but whatevs. A good time was had by all. We drank wine & posed for pics & gabbed about shenanigans. Mostly mine but the ladies had quite a few of their own which made me feel better. I realized time was not on my side so then it was off to try to make the 2nd going away party for my boy Brian who is leaving NYC for greener pastures (Arizona in fact, never been there but I’m assuming it’s greener). So back on the train I go & all is well until a homeless man enters doing his spiel about how he needs money & blah blah blah. I don’t mean to sound heartless but for real… if I gave money to every person asking for a handout I would be left asking for it back because I would have none! So I’m sitting there next to a lovely Puerto Rican girl with some extensions & he gets near us & says, “I need to go to the hospital because I’m sick.” It was then he began to puke on us. The front of my shirt, my pants & I swear it got in my hair. It even got in the girl’s hair & she went off. ”Get this muthafucka off tha train, Ima kill him!” Then she went off in Spanish & it was too rapid for me to even get what she was saying at that point. I can not deal with puke & never have been so I started feeling like I was gonna throw up. Luckily, this happened right before the stop at my house so I got off & ran home to re-shower. So after this incident it put me even more behind & by the time I got to Brian’s party it was basically over. Hmmm maybe that homeless man was the beginning of my sickness.
Or it could be from my random make out sessions I have found myself in while in the midst of a drunken good time. We were out not too long ago & I found myself in the middle of this friendly guy & his just as friendly girl ‘umm’ friend. Not really sure how to explain them but needless to say a make out fest was had with them both. Yeah, I know… you’re like what?! A girl? For a while my friend Erika & I kept finding ourselves in drunken lip locks & my friends said that if no one had known us they would have thought we were a couple. Funny thing is, neither of us remember this. There was also a case of the eager & cute str8 boy hanging out with his gay friend. His crew started dancing with our crew & then all of a sudden he was pushing up on me. Even his other str8 friend was shocked saying he’s not gay! To that I said, “Oh I hate titles,” as I grinded with him. You may say this is slutty behavior. I would just like to call it being friendly. It’s not the first time & it probably won’t be the last.
Love me, hate me
Say what you want about me
But all the boys & all the girls are begging to if you seek Nicky
This cold could also be from celebrating my boo Nicole & ex boo Jordan’s bdays. It was last weekend & even though I was sick & taking a z-pack, chugging Theraflu (which tastes like a shot), & popping Mucinex I was not about to miss any of the soirees. Lights were flashing, my hair was did & the shirts were feeling tight. Good dancing times were had by all. There was security drama & this guy threatening to punch Katie. Even typing that I still can’t believe it. I wasn’t having it & was ready to break some dishes over his head. Chris Brown oh hell to the no, leave my Katie lone! All that aside we had a good time. If you haven’t seen the pics by now trust me, it was a good weekend.
Lordy, Lordy, Lordy!
I can’t help i like to party it’s genetic!
It’s electrifying, wind me up and watch me go
Where he stops, nobody knows
A good excuse to be a bad influence on you and you and you….
So like I said this week it’s as if I’ve been in hiding. At work but having to cough & blow my nose every 5 minutes it seems. Still chugging my Therflu & taking Mucinex & only was able to go to the gym yesterday. Trying to take it easy. I either go balls to the wall or balls safely hidden. It’s just the way I am. It’s the weekend again & I’m gonna do my best to chill. I need to. Let’s see how that goes……
Aahh, the night is calling
And it whispers to me softly, “come and play”
Aahh, I am falling
And if I let myself go, I’m the only one to blame
I’m safe
Up high
Nothing can touch me
But why do I feel this party’s over?
No pain
Inside
You’re like perfection
But how do I feel this good sober?
And since I know you need it…. here’s the top 10 for the month of February:
1. Love Game/Lady GaGa
2. If You Seek Amy/Britney Spears
3. Please Don’t Leave Me/Pink
4. Bottle Pop/The Pussycat Dolls feat. Snoop Dogg
5. Fuck You/Lily Allen
6. Beating My Heart/Jon McLaughlin
7. Diva/Beyonce
8. White Horse/Taylor Swift
9. The Boy Does Nothing/Alesha Dixon
10. Eh, Eh (Nothing Else I Can Say/Lady GaGa
Oh baby baby have you seen Nicky tonight?
Is he in the bathroom? Is he waiting out in line? OH
Oh baby baby does he take a piece of lime
For the shot that Katie bought him
Cause she knows thats what he likes OH
Oh Oh tell me have you seen him
Cause I’m so oh I can’t get him out of my brain
I just want to go the party he gon’ go
Can somebody take me home
Ha ha hee hee ha ha ho
I have had social commitments to my ears for the past few weeks. Let’s see… first, there was 2 going away parties for some friends on the same night. I had to travel up to the upper, upper, upper…. oh hell let’s just say it… Canada! The train was acting a fool & Russell had told me I was gonna have to get off & switch to another or take a shuttle bus. Whatchu talking bout Russell? Only I couldn’t miss it because my British ladies Selina & Beverly were leaving to back across the pond. Selina cooked a lovely meal & it’s been such a rare time for me to get good home cooking. I don’t really cook because if it takes longer then 10 minutes I can’t be bothered. To be honest, I don’t even really like to eat but whatevs. A good time was had by all. We drank wine & posed for pics & gabbed about shenanigans. Mostly mine but the ladies had quite a few of their own which made me feel better. I realized time was not on my side so then it was off to try to make the 2nd going away party for my boy Brian who is leaving NYC for greener pastures (Arizona in fact, never been there but I’m assuming it’s greener). So back on the train I go & all is well until a homeless man enters doing his spiel about how he needs money & blah blah blah. I don’t mean to sound heartless but for real… if I gave money to every person asking for a handout I would be left asking for it back because I would have none! So I’m sitting there next to a lovely Puerto Rican girl with some extensions & he gets near us & says, “I need to go to the hospital because I’m sick.” It was then he began to puke on us. The front of my shirt, my pants & I swear it got in my hair. It even got in the girl’s hair & she went off. ”Get this muthafucka off tha train, Ima kill him!” Then she went off in Spanish & it was too rapid for me to even get what she was saying at that point. I can not deal with puke & never have been so I started feeling like I was gonna throw up. Luckily, this happened right before the stop at my house so I got off & ran home to re-shower. So after this incident it put me even more behind & by the time I got to Brian’s party it was basically over. Hmmm maybe that homeless man was the beginning of my sickness.
Or it could be from my random make out sessions I have found myself in while in the midst of a drunken good time. We were out not too long ago & I found myself in the middle of this friendly guy & his just as friendly girl ‘umm’ friend. Not really sure how to explain them but needless to say a make out fest was had with them both. Yeah, I know… you’re like what?! A girl? For a while my friend Erika & I kept finding ourselves in drunken lip locks & my friends said that if no one had known us they would have thought we were a couple. Funny thing is, neither of us remember this. There was also a case of the eager & cute str8 boy hanging out with his gay friend. His crew started dancing with our crew & then all of a sudden he was pushing up on me. Even his other str8 friend was shocked saying he’s not gay! To that I said, “Oh I hate titles,” as I grinded with him. You may say this is slutty behavior. I would just like to call it being friendly. It’s not the first time & it probably won’t be the last.
Love me, hate me
Say what you want about me
But all the boys & all the girls are begging to if you seek Nicky
This cold could also be from celebrating my boo Nicole & ex boo Jordan’s bdays. It was last weekend & even though I was sick & taking a z-pack, chugging Theraflu (which tastes like a shot), & popping Mucinex I was not about to miss any of the soirees. Lights were flashing, my hair was did & the shirts were feeling tight. Good dancing times were had by all. There was security drama & this guy threatening to punch Katie. Even typing that I still can’t believe it. I wasn’t having it & was ready to break some dishes over his head. Chris Brown oh hell to the no, leave my Katie lone! All that aside we had a good time. If you haven’t seen the pics by now trust me, it was a good weekend.
Lordy, Lordy, Lordy!
I can’t help i like to party it’s genetic!
It’s electrifying, wind me up and watch me go
Where he stops, nobody knows
A good excuse to be a bad influence on you and you and you….
So like I said this week it’s as if I’ve been in hiding. At work but having to cough & blow my nose every 5 minutes it seems. Still chugging my Therflu & taking Mucinex & only was able to go to the gym yesterday. Trying to take it easy. I either go balls to the wall or balls safely hidden. It’s just the way I am. It’s the weekend again & I’m gonna do my best to chill. I need to. Let’s see how that goes……
Aahh, the night is calling
And it whispers to me softly, “come and play”
Aahh, I am falling
And if I let myself go, I’m the only one to blame
I’m safe
Up high
Nothing can touch me
But why do I feel this party’s over?
No pain
Inside
You’re like perfection
But how do I feel this good sober?
And since I know you need it…. here’s the top 10 for the month of February:
1. Love Game/Lady GaGa
2. If You Seek Amy/Britney Spears
3. Please Don’t Leave Me/Pink
4. Bottle Pop/The Pussycat Dolls feat. Snoop Dogg
5. Fuck You/Lily Allen
6. Beating My Heart/Jon McLaughlin
7. Diva/Beyonce
8. White Horse/Taylor Swift
9. The Boy Does Nothing/Alesha Dixon
10. Eh, Eh (Nothing Else I Can Say/Lady GaGa
Thursday, January 29, 2009
The Winter of My Discontent
In Greek mythology there was a story explaining how the change of seasons came to be. Hades, the god of the underworld, abducted Persephone while she was sitting around picking flowers. Her mother Demeter did her best to do some ‘Not Without My Daughter’ shizz & managed to get Persephone back but with limited time warranty. You see Hades had managed to get Persephone to eat of the underworld so then she kind of owed him or something. So the arrangement was that Persephone would be able to return to the surface for 6 months and then stay 6 months in the underworld. All because she ate 6 pomegranate seeds. Sound weird & fucked up right? I mean Hades abducted her after all. It was also said that while she was down there she fell in love with him so that may explain why she wanted to stay with him. Either way, this infuriated Demeter so for 6 months she would grieve & take it out on the earth by bringing about the cold & famine. Then, when she has her daughter back she is happy & brings the warm weather again. Quite an interesting scenario to me. But seriously that dumb beyotch should have pulled some more serious ‘Not Without My Daughter’ shizz & kept her daughter because this winter is killing me softly.
January has not been my month. There has been a plague set upon my mouth since New Years Day. At the beginning of the month I found out I had an ulcer which was right next to my wisdom tooth. Incidentally this is the same tooth that has been growing in for YEARS. So for 2 weeks I had to be careful about eating & swish with stuff twice a day so it would go away. The dentist also informed me that my gums were currently in a recession, much like the economy. Her solution was to stop brushing so hard. She also told me I have a small cavity which has to be filled next week. Then, at the beginning of last weekend I felt like a cold was coming on so I did my best to combat it. Since it’s the season for that I’ve seen tons of people at work & around sick so I’ve tried to avoid them. By last Sunday I woke up feeling terrible & kind of weak. That night I barely slept. I woke up with a 101 degree fever & the sheets were soaked from my sweat. I called into work & immediately went to the doctor. I had my suspicions on what caused it but he confirmed it when he said I had come down with tonsillitis again. I last had it in July & had heard that if you have it too often you have to have your tonsils removed. Instead he said that they only do that if it happens to you more than 3 times in a 6 month span. Then he said, “Nick, you have abnormally large tonsils.” Hmmm doc you know all the things a guy likes to hear. I’ll think of that the next time I have sexy times with someone. Maybe they’ll like to hear ‘Yeah you like those abnormally large tonsils don’t cha?’ Hmmm…. maybe not.
But I digress, enough about my mouth. What do you think of my mouth? No, so seriously I’ve been a tad saltier this month. There’s been unnecessary fights with friends that don’t even deserve the space in a blog to discuss. But I suppose that can happen with anyone. Sometimes the people that know you best know how to push your buttons. The same thing can be said about ourselves though right? Right. So at least all is well & this month is literally about to be over. Last night I decided to go out to see a group I used to like as a kid, Expose. It was an 80’s night & plenty of people were dressed in their 80’s garb. They tossed out glow sticks & other things that lit up. Before I knew it I had one around my neck & then 3 around my waist which prompted a Puerto Rican papi to call me Neon Shakira when I shook my ass. At around 1:15 am Expose finally came out. Mind you normally I am asleep in lala land on a school/work night but I’m glad I went. We all had so much fun & Expose sang like 6 of their biggest hits. Larry was in heaven when he got to sing a line when one of the girls sent out the mic & Vadim is just sure that he’ll get a record deal when the same thing happened to him. It prompted me to say, “Vadim made a record & is trying to promote it at an Expose show.” (you Madonna die hards will get that one) Most importantly, I ran into some friends who I haven’t seen in years & even reconnected with a former co-worker who was a pop star in her own right in the early 90’s. Yes Vadim, don’t lie…. I know you’re jealous. I’ll introduce you next time. I had a dream I met India & she sang her song about burning up the fire with just one desire. All I could think was that Vadim was gonna be so jealous! (another diehard madonna knock off quote but it works for this story)
So today I’m a lil tired but I don’t mind. My tonsillitis feels like it’s almost cleared up thanks to the antibiotics. A wisdom tooth is trying to make me think it’s gonna annoy me today but I ain’t having it. I’m in a good mood. Expose reminded that…….
Seasons change, feelings change
It’s been so long since I found you
Yet it seems like yesterday
Seasons change, people change
I’ll sacrifice tomorrow just to have you here today
One last thing, I heard from a lot of people about my top 100 for 2008 & wanted to know what my new jams were. So I decided you need to know about my top 10 songs of this month.
1. Circus/Britney Spears
2. That’s Not My Name/The Ting Tings
3. Sober/Pink
4. I Hate This Part/The Pussycat Dolls
5. Broken Strings/James Morrison & Nelly Furtado
6. My Life Would Suck Without You/Kelly Clarkson
7. The Fear/Lily Allen
8. The Loving Kind/Girls Aloud
9. Issues/The Saturdays
10. Unstoppable/Kat De Luna & Lil’ Wayne
January has not been my month. There has been a plague set upon my mouth since New Years Day. At the beginning of the month I found out I had an ulcer which was right next to my wisdom tooth. Incidentally this is the same tooth that has been growing in for YEARS. So for 2 weeks I had to be careful about eating & swish with stuff twice a day so it would go away. The dentist also informed me that my gums were currently in a recession, much like the economy. Her solution was to stop brushing so hard. She also told me I have a small cavity which has to be filled next week. Then, at the beginning of last weekend I felt like a cold was coming on so I did my best to combat it. Since it’s the season for that I’ve seen tons of people at work & around sick so I’ve tried to avoid them. By last Sunday I woke up feeling terrible & kind of weak. That night I barely slept. I woke up with a 101 degree fever & the sheets were soaked from my sweat. I called into work & immediately went to the doctor. I had my suspicions on what caused it but he confirmed it when he said I had come down with tonsillitis again. I last had it in July & had heard that if you have it too often you have to have your tonsils removed. Instead he said that they only do that if it happens to you more than 3 times in a 6 month span. Then he said, “Nick, you have abnormally large tonsils.” Hmmm doc you know all the things a guy likes to hear. I’ll think of that the next time I have sexy times with someone. Maybe they’ll like to hear ‘Yeah you like those abnormally large tonsils don’t cha?’ Hmmm…. maybe not.
But I digress, enough about my mouth. What do you think of my mouth? No, so seriously I’ve been a tad saltier this month. There’s been unnecessary fights with friends that don’t even deserve the space in a blog to discuss. But I suppose that can happen with anyone. Sometimes the people that know you best know how to push your buttons. The same thing can be said about ourselves though right? Right. So at least all is well & this month is literally about to be over. Last night I decided to go out to see a group I used to like as a kid, Expose. It was an 80’s night & plenty of people were dressed in their 80’s garb. They tossed out glow sticks & other things that lit up. Before I knew it I had one around my neck & then 3 around my waist which prompted a Puerto Rican papi to call me Neon Shakira when I shook my ass. At around 1:15 am Expose finally came out. Mind you normally I am asleep in lala land on a school/work night but I’m glad I went. We all had so much fun & Expose sang like 6 of their biggest hits. Larry was in heaven when he got to sing a line when one of the girls sent out the mic & Vadim is just sure that he’ll get a record deal when the same thing happened to him. It prompted me to say, “Vadim made a record & is trying to promote it at an Expose show.” (you Madonna die hards will get that one) Most importantly, I ran into some friends who I haven’t seen in years & even reconnected with a former co-worker who was a pop star in her own right in the early 90’s. Yes Vadim, don’t lie…. I know you’re jealous. I’ll introduce you next time. I had a dream I met India & she sang her song about burning up the fire with just one desire. All I could think was that Vadim was gonna be so jealous! (another diehard madonna knock off quote but it works for this story)
So today I’m a lil tired but I don’t mind. My tonsillitis feels like it’s almost cleared up thanks to the antibiotics. A wisdom tooth is trying to make me think it’s gonna annoy me today but I ain’t having it. I’m in a good mood. Expose reminded that…….
Seasons change, feelings change
It’s been so long since I found you
Yet it seems like yesterday
Seasons change, people change
I’ll sacrifice tomorrow just to have you here today
One last thing, I heard from a lot of people about my top 100 for 2008 & wanted to know what my new jams were. So I decided you need to know about my top 10 songs of this month.
1. Circus/Britney Spears
2. That’s Not My Name/The Ting Tings
3. Sober/Pink
4. I Hate This Part/The Pussycat Dolls
5. Broken Strings/James Morrison & Nelly Furtado
6. My Life Would Suck Without You/Kelly Clarkson
7. The Fear/Lily Allen
8. The Loving Kind/Girls Aloud
9. Issues/The Saturdays
10. Unstoppable/Kat De Luna & Lil’ Wayne
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